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Saturday, April 29, 2006

Tripping Jesus....

OK, now I am sure THAT title makes you go, "HUH?"

As I said, we are in the Windy City of Chicago this week for the Reading Association Annual Conference. Today was pretty much an "on your own" day as the conference sessions don't start until tomorrow. We are staying right on the Magnificent Mile...so there was plenty to keep us busy....but to stay out of trouble (and debt), we decided to go to a show this afternoon: The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee was the winner.

The theater is a quaint little theater near the water tower. We sat down (in the very last row) and put our shopping bags next to the emergency exit door beside our chairs. Before the show started, one of the ladies in our group said, "I hope there's no emergency." We made sure the bags were mostly out of the way, but were certain that we could move them fast enough should the need arise.

The show is a hysterical little musical that chronicles the annual spelling bee competition. It features several "misfit" type characters vying for the top prize. (As an aside, one of the characters was played by James Earl Jones II...who has a PHENOMENAL voice.)

About an hour into the show a few of the contestants are out and the over-achieving Asian girl stands up to spell some long words and she cries out, "Oh, dear Jesus...."

Suddenly, through the emergency exit door in a white robe, complete with light-up heart, and smoke runs Jesus! Imagine our surprise as the door opened...there was no time to move the bags (like we thought there would be if necessary). Nope...he simply jumped right over them and into the crowded theater. Actually, I am quite surprised he didn't trip and roll right down the stairs!

The song was great as the girl and Jesus share a conversation about winning and losing and Him loving us anyway.

And almost as quickly as he came in...he ran BACK out through the Emergency Door.

I laughed. I thought how often I DO put things in between me and Jesus. And I thought about the fact that he simply leaps right over them to get to where He needs to be....

It was a gentle, but strong reminder that:

I am so thankful that HE doesn't get tripped up over MY junk....and that He loves me whether I win or lose.

Friday, April 28, 2006

Headed to the Windy City

I am off to Chicago for a week. This is SO exciting to me because I ABSOLUTELY LOVE this city! We are staying on the Magnificent Mile and going to have a great time learning new things about Reading all at the same time.

Of course, if you have been reading my blog for a while, you may remember that flying is NOT my favorite thing. I am feeling less anxious as I have given more of MY control issues over to the Lord...but I have moments of weakness. If you can, will you please pray that the trip goes well and that I am able to continue to exercise my faith?

I'll blog from there...I already found a GREAT window for Monday!!

Happy Friday everyone!!

Thursday, April 27, 2006


Thirteen Things SUSAN can see from her computer at work


1. Mini-refrigerator

2. A "Lorax" (think Dr. Seuss) hat

3. A microwave

4. Mountains of books

5. Calculator

6. Hand Sanitizer

7. Three Hole Punch

8. Pictures of my family including all of my nieces and nephews

9. My walkie talkie

10. A file cabinet

11. My printer

12. Pens and Pencils

13. And the forever important pile of STICKY NOTES!!

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Tuesday, April 25, 2006

Do you Dream?

After I finished the Nicholas Sparks book this weekend, I went to his website. It was very interesting and included "tips" for writing a fiction novel.

Now, I have been a "writer" since I was very young. I wrote stories and poems all through my teenage years. I suppose this means that a spark of desire to write and publish has been hidden somewhere all along.

Many of you know that I have written three professional education books for teachers and numerous teacher's guides for a national publisher. That has been very rewarding. I love sharing my learning with others and hearing what they think and learn as well.

I think, though, that all this fiction reading I have been doing lately has excavated this urge to write. For the past two nights I have dreamed about the literary elements that I was going to include in my novel. Strange, right? I dreamed of hooks, settings, problems, and solutions.

The first night I dreamed ONLY hooks...and I kept telling myself, "You need to write this down so you don't lose it." Well...sleep was more important and it seems that any good ideas I had that night have vanished into my dreamland.

Last night, I dreamed about all the other elements and book promotions. I woke up feeling like I have been working all night. It's tiring and strange all at once.

I suppose that this is partially due to the fact that I haven't read fiction for some time. My life is filled with informational text. Professional books have filled my bookstand for years. I decided last year to reignite my love for story and fiction--fitting it in when I can. Exercising has been helpful for this as I can read a good chunk of a novel on the treadmill and ellipticle machines! I have read more novels in the past year than I suppose I have in the 9 or 10 previous years put together!

I don't know what this is all about.

I DO know this, though...I sure wish I could DAYDREAM instead!!

Monday, April 24, 2006

My Weekend Window

OK I have tried three times this morning to put a NEW window picture in here, but blogger is not cooperating. So no window this week...only the story.


I went home Friday and found out that our new TV has arrived. The large screen that we got around Christmas started smoking a few weeks ago...so warranty upheld and they sent us an even larger TV for the trouble. Not a bad deal except it didn't work at first. Come to think of it, the lady at Phillips just told dh, "Sure we can send you a larger model...." She never indicated that it would WORK! DH was working on that when I arrived home...and I must say...I think it was grating on his nerves a bit.

In the midst of that, he was finalizing the deal for ds 2's new car. This has been a LONG process and I am sure that ds 2 really doesn't believe he is going to have one....and if the dealer was any more persnickety over "little stuff" on Friday, he might not have that one. I think that all worked out though and the car should be here this week.

And on top of both of these things, one of the laptops is not going to be able to be repaired. Dh was not happy about this either.

We rode down to church (35 miles) and it was a pretty quiet drive...dh must have been contemplating all the TV, Computer and CAR stuff he had just gone through.

We had a fun time at the fish fry, though. The fish fry was sponsored by the Youth in an effort to raise funds for their upcoming mission trip to Belize! DSs 1 and 2 are going, so they were down there working. We had a nice evening visiting with friends down there. And the food wasn't bad either!

Saturday was CROPPING day!!! I cropped for EIGHT hours and finished an entire year's scrapbook (minus journaling). I went with my friend Sandy and we had a wonderful relaxing afternoon.

Sunday we had church. I was up for Children's church (which I have been coordinating for almost 3 years). I have been praying for someone to take it over and making appeals for help. Sunday, help arrived! I am SO excited because as I transition her into Children's Church Coordinator, I'll be able to do more in Women's Ministry (which is where my heart is right now).

Last night, I wrapped up some teacher's guides that I needed to get written.

And today, I'm back at work for the five day grind. I truly am thankful that we have the weekends to rest, rejuvinate, and rejoice...it gets me ready for the week ahead.

Next weekend...I'll be in Chicago...I can't wait to share THAT weekend window with you! ;-)

Sunday, April 23, 2006

I just finished...



Three Weeks with My Brother by Nicholas Sparks and Micah Sparks. What an AMAZING and challenging story!! I found myself thinking about my own "growing up" years and my relationships with my brothers and my parents. While I could certainly connect with much of Sparks' experiences, some were totally foreign to me. What wasn't foreign, however, is that deep sense of family. The interconnectedness of those with whom you shared your childhood. Those memories will forever be a part of who I am as an adult. In many ways it's the people, the experiences, and the memories that define who we become....

I am thankful I read this book. Now, I just have one question:

Greg or Dan would you like to take a three week trip around the world together???? :-)

Saturday, April 22, 2006

National Scrapbook Day!!

It's National Scrapbook Day and I am leaving in a few minutes for an EIGHT HOUR crop!!! I am SOOOOO excited!!

Someone asked me yesterday, "How can you do that for eight hours?" I thought for a minute and responded....

"No kids, no phone, no distractions....
WITH friends, food, and fellowship.....

I could do just about anything for eight hours in those conditions!"

Plus that, it makes me a better wife and mother when I get back home.

See you all tomorrow!!

Friday, April 21, 2006

A HUGE Thank you!!!!

I owe Susie over at A Little Luxury a BIG thank you for my new look! She is a great person to work with and made the switchover totally painless for me! Susie, you are AMAZING! If you are looking for a new look for your own site...go visit her....it's worth it!!

Thursday, April 20, 2006

Thursday Thirteen


Thirteen ConveniencesSUSANhas now that she didn't have as a child....


1. Air Conditioning

2. The "Switch the radio with your thumb" control on my steering wheel

3. My Cell Phone

4. A Computer

5. A video camera

6. Digital camera

7. A walk-in closet

8. A "walk-around" phone

9. A remote control

10. A bread maker

11. A microwave

12. Many malls to choose from (not just one)

13. Target and Walmart

And I MUST add a number 14....drumroll.....a GREAT place on the web to share my thoughts! (Thanks Susie, for making it even BETTER!!!!!)

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Wednesday, April 19, 2006

Ouch...those are my TOES!!!

I have been reading a lot lately. I have shared a couple of the books that I have read here on my blog...

My latest book (which I just started) is by Nicholas Sparks and his brother, Micah. It is titled "Three Weeks With My Brother" and recounts a journey the two brothers made around the world in recent years. Nicholas starts out by sharing glimpses of their childhood entwined with their preparations for this three week trip. By page 30, he notes "Everything about the trip felt wrong,"

He continues to explain how he thinks of life in terms of a stream, rapids, and waterfall. He talks about those times when we simply "float along" and "one day just floats into another." He continues to describe the rapids where things get more challenging...deadlines, life events, work events...you struggle to stay afloat. He concludes that you ride the rapids with the thoughts of you "have to", "need to", and "have no other choice". You go, go, go. And in the distance you hear the roar of the waterfall.....if you don't steer to safety, the waterfall will "get you".

Sparks says this is an example of life out of balance.

Ouch! I read it on the treadmill...but I could definitely hear the pressure of Sparks stepping on my toes!

At school, I teach my kids that good readers "make personal connections" to what they read. Streams...yep...been there. I remember well those times when the ebb and flow of my life seemed to just gently roll along. The rapids...yep...I've found myself deep in them with really no clear way out. And that waterfall....hearing it in the distance is sometimes scary.

Thankfully, this year, God has been showing me how to navigate the waters. He is the man who can calm the stormy sea. I just have to remember that HE is the captain of MY ship!!

Personal connection? It sure is. I know exactly how Sparks feels...I just wonder if HIS toes also feel the same way?

Tuesday, April 18, 2006

Why????

Why is it that when somebody says something negative....especially a negative opinion.....that people will walk around and say, "EVERYBODY'S mad!" OR "EVERYBODY is ticked off!" When reality is it's only one or a small number of people.

But if someone shares some good news or positive aspect...it hardly ever gets spread around????????????????

I hate sweeping generalizations!!!!! It's not a fair assessment of anything.

I can't say anymore just that it GETS MY GOAT!

Monday, April 17, 2006

My Weekend Window



It's time for MY Weekend Window....

Friday I got my hair done. It feels so good to have it in a style that I like again AND can work with!!!!

Friday night we went to my Dad and Stepmother's to color eggs. It was fun to see my nieces and nephew. They had a great time egg coloring...I am always amazed at how fast it goes.

Saturday I got my nails done. Again, something that made me feel better and pampered a bit. Mom and I went shopping at the Outlet Mall. It was packed...I finally got the boys Easter stuff. I found an Easter outfit as did Mom. We had a nice time just talking and walking around the mall.

DS 4 wasn't through with his egg coloring "traditions" so we did it at OUR house on Saturday night. He had a great time mixing colors and planning what to do with his dozen eggs.

We woke up Sunday and he hunted for eggs. DSs 3 and 4 and I pretty much entertained each other until church time.

Sunday was busy for the older guys and dh. They were at church for FOUR services starting with Sunrise. I know this simply can wear you out. They rested yesterday afternoon then we all went mini-golfing and out to eat last night. Golfing was fun (but expensive). Dh noted after we ate that it cost us less to eat than to play mini-golf. I think we had a nice time though.

Somebody at church said, "You guys don't do anything for Easter???" I guess one of the boys told her that. I just didn't know how to explain what it's like being in ministry...and especially Holy Week. Dh was explaining it to the boys last night. He said that 2/3 of the Pastors in America take time off after Easter because it is draining. So "doing" something that requires more energy and preparation on that most busy day isn't the best idea for the clergy family. And besides....we DO something...we DO the most important thing....we go to church and celebrate the resurrection. After that, it's all gravy....know what I mean?

So, now after a great weekend....I am back to the daily grind....work. See you soon!

Sunday, April 16, 2006

This says it all....

I've Been Tagged...again!

Mary has tagged me! I love these games...so here I go

1. I HATE loud noises. I cannot be in the same room with latex balloons (for fear they will pop), cannot watch 4th of July fireworks without my ears plugged and cannot be too near when my son is playing the drum kit. It hurts my ears.

2. I love the mountains and dream of living in a house with a wrap around front porch someday. I am starting to realize that it may not happen this side of heaven...but I am SURE that this will be part of the design of my mansion in heaven.

3. I sleep with one leg under the sheet and one leg outside the sheet. It seems to balance out the temperature. DH thought that was weird when we were first married...now he's used to it. (It may have something to do with growing up and having no air conditioning...I don't know.)

4. I fret about things sometimes...but I try not to let other people know. I have to remind myself that I am NOT IN CONTROL and I don't need to be....it's a hard habit to break.

5. I was raised in church and am so glad that I can say I never strayed far. My testimony is one of those that is kind of "ho-hum"...but I'll keep it that way! I have my Mom to thank for that.

6. I am a music "junkie"....I LOVE all kinds of music! And I know the words to a ton of songs from Christian, to Country, to Pop, to Oldies but Goodies, to Kiddie Music, to Broadway...to....well you get the idea.


Here's who I tag:

Dan
Lynn
Heather
Amy
Kt
Kris

Here are the rules of this tag:

1.Go write weird facts/things/etc. about yourself in my comment box and on your blog, then tag six more people!

2. Then leave a comment that says "You are tagged" in their comments telling them to read your blog.

ENJOY!

Saturday, April 15, 2006

It's Easter and There's Not an Egg in this Town!

I went out today and shopped for Easter. I know it's a bit late. It just crept up on me this year. With the boys getting older...and knowing that they really don't DO candy....I didn't plan ahead. Truth is, I thought maybe it would come and go and I wouldn't have to do the egg, candy, basket thing. Now before you think I am the worst Easter Bunny ever, know that I always get them a small gift....it was just going to be sans the other Eastery stuff this year.

The only reason I even considered doing "anything" more than my little gift is this:

In a conversation this week with DS 4, I realized that HE seems to think we have some traditions that I wasn't fulfilling. He said, "We ALWAYS hunt eggs at Grandma C's!" Now, we may have hunted eggs there twice in his lifetime....so I guess when it has been done 2/7 years, it "could" be considered tradtion. And we weren't planning to go there this year.

In a subsequent conversation, he proceeded to tell me something else that we "always" do and I thought, "OK time to get your Easter hat on and prepare a nice memory for that boy."

So, last night, we went to Grandma and Grandpa's to color eggs and fill his memory basket. He was happy with that. He had a great time visiting and playing with his cousins and helping create some beautiful eggs over there.

Today, I went shopping with my Mom. I decided I wasn't going to do much candy because they rarely eat what I get. But I decided that I would fill plastic eggs and let DSs 3 and 4 hunt for them in the morning (since everyone else will be at Sunrise Service). There was only one slight problem...there wasn't a plastic egg to be found within twenty miles of my house!!!!!!!!

One year, dh found so many plastic eggs at the "after-Easter" sales that he bought 3500 for the church's egg hunt the next year!! This year, NO ONE will be landing that kind of deal. There simply were no eggs. We searched all the "regular" stores for them. I finally decided they don't "need" eggs anyway and left. I couldn't believe it though. It's Easter. Could it really be that they didn't buy enough eggs for last minute shoppers like me? There wasn't even Easter GRASS (which I don't like anyway). I was actually quite amazed.

In a last minute effort, I stopped at CVS by my house (less than a mile) and low and behold there were five packs of plastic eggs on the shelf. I almost tackled a lady in front of me who was also reaching for egg bags. Luckily she took two and I took two...and we left one for some other poor soul who needed them last minute. I praised the lady at the counter of CVS for making one more child smile on Easter morning and left with my prize.

Now, I just have one slight problem....I didn't buy anything small enough to go in them!! I wonder if he'd mind hunting for empty eggs?????? Seriously, I'm going to raid the coin jar and call it done.

I know the eggs and the bunnies and the baskets are NOT what Easter is all about....but I was taken back to my childhood a bit this week as DS 4 shared his expectations and memories. I loved getting them as a child as does he. I loved the WHOLE event...from the baskets...to the eggs....to bunnies...to PEEPS....to dressing up and especially going to church.

Tonight, he reminded me that it's a total package for him too when he said, "it will be fun going to church tomorrow to celebrate Jesus rising from the dead."

Thank goodness we didn't skip this opportunity to make memories and enjoy this wonderful holiday together!! And thank goodness we found those eggs!!

Thursday, April 13, 2006

Thursday Thirteen


Thirteen ThingsSUSAN remembers about EASTER

With Easter coming around the corner, I thought it'd be fun sharing some of my memories of this holiday from my early childhood until now.

1. Chewing the ear off the chocolate bunny

2. Peeps

3. Picking out a dress

4. Attending my first Sunrise Service in a Sundress and FREEZING!!

5. Easter baskets at Grandma and Grandpa's

6. Hunting for eggs in the house and finding the last one a little (ahem) late

7. Bonnets

8. Singing "Here Comes Peter Cottontail..."

9. Bringing extra chairs into church for all the seasonal attendees

10. Being excited that at least they were in church twice a year!

11. Picking out Easter outfits for the boys when they were younger

12. Mom sewing matching outfits for DS 1 and 2 when they were 1 and 2

13. Finding easter grass around the house long after the holiday is over!!

Of course, I know that Resurrection is the MOST important thing about Easter!!!!!



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Wednesday, April 12, 2006

A Word About my Wordless Wednesday

OK...I am thinking that "Wordless" is not the best thing to describe me! The picture below is J. He is a struggling reader who has been retained twice before the third grade (another blog for another day). After reading Dr. Seuss's The Foot Book for half the year....he worked his way through this book Flossie and the Fox by Patricia McKissack. It took him two full days...but HE DID IT! He embodies EVERY reason that I stay in Education. He's worth it!!

Wordless Wednesday

OK, here's my first Wordless Wednesday.....




Tuesday, April 11, 2006

Wikipedia Fun

I found this over at Cozy Reader's blog who found it over at Susie's blog and I thought it would be fun.

If you decide to play, go to Wikipedia and type in your birthday (excluding the year) into the search bar. List three neat facts, two births and one death in your journal, including the year.

Facts

1782 - George Washington orders the creation of the Badge of Military Merit to honor soldiers wounded in battle. It is later renamed to the more poetic Purple Heart.

1942 - World War II: Battle of Guadalcanal begins - U.S. Marines initiate the first American offensive of the war with a landing on Guadalcanal in the Solomon Islands.

1981 -The Washington Star ceases all operations after 128 years of publicatio

Births

1942 Garrison Keillor, American Writer and Radio Host

1975 Charlize Theron, South African Actress

Deaths

2005 Peter Jennings Canadian Born Newsanchor

It's Fun to Go to the YMCA!

Since I took my Spring Break trip and spent last week making up for the time I was away...I haven't been to the Y to work out. I know that's an excuse....

Last night I went back. I knew that I had not worked out for almost two weeks. I knew that it would not be "easy" getting back into the swing of things. I took my book and charged ahead. After about 35 minutes of cardio workout...I had to stop. I was getting dizzy. Even the sign on the machine that says, "If you feel faint or dizzy, stop." looked blurry. I thought I could push through it....but I couldn't.

I went downstairs where ds 2 was lifting weights and ds 4 was playing basketball. I sat at a little table beside the basketball court. As I did, ds 2 came out and said, "Mom are you OK? You look a little dizzy. And you're wobbling." I didn't know about the wobbling part...although it's kind of in my genes to wobble (thanks to Grandma) naturally. I sat though. He and his friend stood there and talked to me for a minute and I drank my water. Then I decided to read a bit more in my book and watch ds 4 play basketball.

I don't know what it was. I felt better after a few minutes. As I reflect though...I think that pretty much sums up my life. I push and push and push (in whatever area) then I get "dizzy" and have to stop. It's the same old thing no matter what the subject...kind of like the hamster wheel. I need to learn to stop at the "right time". I need to learn to keep the energy in balance. I need to learn to not push too hard or too fast so that I don't burn out. And perhaps if I would start heeding warning signs (like I didn't on the treadmill) I might be better off.

The "warning" signs are written throughout scripture:

"Draw near to me and I will draw near to you."
"Come to me all who are weary...and I will give you rest."
"Cast your cares on him because he cares for you."

And so on...and so on...and so on....

Tonight I am going back to the Y. I will not go beyond what I can handle. I will not try to be superwoman. I will simply do what is right for me and my body.

And more than my Y trip...I am definitely in a season of re-evaluation. I am trying to take a look at all of my responsibilities and only cling to those that I am "supposed" to be doing. I am dropping some committments that I need to drop and re-defining others. So, along with my Y trip...I am also going to continue to pick myself up and start again...but I know that I can't go beyond what I can handle there either...I cannot be superwoman...I will simply do what is right for me and my life....

And maybe, just maybe (with God's help), this time I'll get it right!! ;-)

Monday, April 10, 2006

My Weekend Window



It’s Monday and time for either a Monday Memory or a Weekend Window. I decided to go with the latter. You’ll have to wait for another time to read about my adventure selling leaves to the neighbors as a child.

Friday night was the Sock Hop at my school. Ds 4 and I went. We had a great time. The DJ is very good working with kids. He stopped to teach them a bit about the 50’s as well. Of course, the kids were really into dancing in just their socks. I got some great pictures and may try to upload some later.

The Oh’s (my boys’ band) had a gig at the Relay for Life for their school. They played at 10:30 (too late for Mom)…but they said the crowd was GREAT and that they really enjoyed it. They continue to improve with each performance.

Saturday, I weeded (as you know if you read my post). DS 4 went to a friend’s house, so dh and I took advantage of being down one son and we went out. (The others are quite capable of fending for themselves! We had a nice late lunch at Longhorn Steakhouse. It’s always good just to sit and talk and not have anyone or anything distracting us.

Saturday night DS 2 and his GF went to her prom. The pictures are adorable (I’ll try to post those too)! DS 2 really enjoyed shopping for the tux last week. He said, “This is so cool! I want to get married!” I reminded him that he would have a few more occasions to wear a tux before his wedding…no rush, son, no rush. Anyway, they had a GREAT time and I’m glad.

Sunday was a great day at church. The worship and message were both so powerful. I keep praying that we will be able to get put back together after the hurricane damage and really impact our little corner of the world!

DS 1 left for a week-long Spring Break Youth trip. The Youth Group has Spring Break this week (and ours was a couple of weeks ago) so only he can go….They are going to the beach for the week.

Last night, dh left for Texas. He’ll be back tonight. I miss him when he is gone.


On another note, I read a book this weekend. The book I read is the true story of Hollywood Nanny, Suzanne Hansen’s, experiences with the rich and famous. It gives quite a peek into the world that some of these people live and work. Amazing. It’s not really deep reading…but it IS interesting! It again reminded me how much unhappiness there is behind some people with beautiful wrappings and trappings.

Well…that pretty much sums up my weekend. It was busy…but fun. Hope yours was too! ☺

Saturday, April 08, 2006

Worth the Visit

I went to this site today (click the title above)....this is a VERY important reminder to those of us who are blogging and the impact that our posts can potentially have on others. Go check it out.

Pulling Up Weeds

I have spent the past three hours pulling up weeds and pruning my plants. Now this is NOT my favorite job...but I LOVE it when my plants look pretty and the beds are weedless...or pretty close to it.

I dealt with some very stubborn weeds today. You know, the kind where you pull and THINK you have the root, but they just break off before the root comes up? In fact, as I sat digging to find the main roots, I thought, "I think I tried to pull you up a couple of weeks ago! What are you doing back here in my plants?"

And as I dug, I again was taken back to the scriptures about plants, weeds, and roots. The truth is, our sin is just like those weeds. It grows up and chokes the beautiful plants around it. And just when you think you have "dug up" and thrown out the sin...you find there's still this tiny root that is growing (festering) underground and waiting for the opportune time to pop up!!

We MUST dig those roots all the way out! And as laborious as it is to get rid of the weeds and their roots (and more so our sin), it's a MUST DO. If we wait too long, they grow more rapidly and more widespread. If we get them right away, it's easier.

In fact, better than just pulling them out by hand....we need to trust that the Master Gardener will spray some Weed-Be-Gone on them!!! So my thought for the day...are there weeds I haven't dug up? If so, God, help me see them and get to the REAL root of the problem. Help me be a fruitful and mindful of the junk that can choke me from being my absolute best for you.

Friday, April 07, 2006

Contrasting Perspective

Yesterday afternoon I wanted to blog so bad...I just didn't have the time! I was crushed. It was one of those moments that parents simply detest.

As I went to round up DS 4 after school so we could go home. He is usually on the playground playing with stragglers and the after school kids. Some of the stragglers include some of our PTA Moms and their kids. They socialize for a while after school while their children play. As I approached the play area, two PTA Moms and their kids came to me and said, "We are sorry our kids were taunting your ds on the playground. We made them all apologize to him and have told them there will be consequences for it." I told them I would talk to ds and was sure that it was probably nothing to worry about.

I found ds and he seemed no worse for wear. I asked him anyway, "What happened on the playground?" He said, "Oh the kids were saying 'Your Mama does ___________' and 'Your Daddy does ___________'." You know it's the same old thing. Kids have been doing this for years. And yet, I wanted to go and give each of those children a piece of my mind (I didn't).

And as I drove, I thought....

They are born SO innocent. Without sin. Without knowledge of hatred or ugliness. And slowly, but surely, their innocence is whittled away. And while I'd love to shield him from all the ugliness that is in the world...I can't. I think my job is so much more than that. It's to show him how to be grace-filled in the face of ugliness. It's to show him how to guard your heart and mind. It's to show him how to sift through the "ugliness and hatred" that sometimes fills our lives and find the "beauty and love". It's my job to demonstrate the mind of Christ so that he will know how to respond when this stuff happens.

I KNOW I stewed over this much longer than he did. In fact, he was his happy-go-lucky self pretty much immediately.

This morning, on my way to work, it once again popped into my mind. Just as it did, he asked me: "Mom, how is it that you know so much about my personality?" I said, "HUH?" He rephrased his question. I replied, "Because I am raising you. What do you mean by personality?" He replied, "You know how when we go in an elevator, people always say 'Oh He's SO CUTE!'?"

I can't honestly recall the last time that happened...but I am glad that he can. I'm glad that those words were on his mind OVER and ABOVE the playground incident.

It's all about perspective, isn't it????

Thursday, April 06, 2006

Thursday, Thursday, Thursday


Thirteen Things about SUSAN'S Childhood


1. I attended the same school system straight through: K - 12
2. I had stitches when I was four
3. I tried to sell dead leaves to the neighbors as a child (Mom made me give the money back)
4. I took one year of piano lessons
5. I went to the same church for about 24 years and was married there
6. I was in the marching band (color guard)
7. We loved traveling in the summer
8. Christmas was (and still is) my favorite holiday
9. I loved climbing the tree out front
10. I sunbathed on our roof that was covered in pebbles
11. I had mono when I was a junior
12. I worked at Busch Gardens
13. I babysat A LOT!!! I loved playing school with my little charges!!
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Wednesday, April 05, 2006

Dry Spells

I love to write. I always have. When I was a child I filled journal after journal with information about my daily life experiences. I think that is why blogging appeals to me so much. For the past few days, though, I've had a block. I simply can't decide what to write about!

I have been working on editing this week. Maybe that's why my creative juices are dry. Editing is a boring process. It is where you have to make stuff fit...look for errors....check for accuracy and so on. BORING! I loved writing the book..this part is not my favorite.

Here I am wondering how long my dry spell will last. I read other blogs and think, "Wow! They are SO creative...well thought out and fun to read." Today, mine will not be that exciting for anyone. It's just a chance to tell myself that dry spells are OK. They are normal. And who knows? Maybe the creative rain is coming!!! I hope so. I hope so.

Tuesday, April 04, 2006

I've been TAGGED!! Monday Meme on Tuesday

My blogging friend Mary tagged me to do this quiz! Here it is Mary....Enjoy!

A Monday Meme!

How did you get the idea for your profile name?
I am a teacher and that means that I am also a learner...hence the name...

What song are you playing now, or wish you were playing?
Actually I just finished listening to ds 1 play a GREAT new song he wrote. He's really becoming quite a musician.

Has the death of a celebrity ever made you cry?
The death of Tony Dungy's son in December made me very sad

What colour underwear are you wearing?
Gray...nuff said.

Do you want a baby?
Nope...been there done that...now GRANDBABIES eventually sounds REAL NICE!!

What does your dad do for a living?
He retired from Data Processing a few years ago

What does your mum do for a living?
She works for Property Management and at Busch Gardens

What is/are your pet's name(s)?
We are down to one pet, our bunny Button. The cat and dog both died this year :-(

What colour are your bed sheets?
Hunter Green

What are the last 3 digits of your phone number?
779

What was the last concert you went to?
I honestly can't remember...Other than the boys' band: The Oh's. I went to the Gaither's a while back....

Who was with you?
At the Oh's: All of our family. At the Gaither's": Mom, Carolyn, Elaine, and Geri

What was the last film you watched?
The Pink Panther Movie

What do you dislike most at this moment?
How many questions are in this thing! And the fact that I can't edit html on a mac, so I have to keep typing in the "b's" to make it bold.

What food do you crave right now?
Nothing. I am eating a pop tart.

Did you dream last night?
Yep---it was weird--I was moving to North Carolina and had a personal meeting with our Superintendent of Schools to ask him to tell my principal I was leaving---really STRANGE!!

What was the last TV show you watched?
American Idol Results Show last week

What is your fav piece of jewelery?
My wedding set that dh bought me for our 15th anniversary.

What is to the left of you?
A pillow

What was the last thing you ate?
Besides this pop tart---Sushi for dinner

Who is your best friend of the opposite sex?
Absolutely my husband!!

Who last MSN'd you?
I can't remember...it's been a long time since I have been on there.

Where is your significant other right now?
In our room watching TV and working on the computer

Do you have a crush?
Yep a BIGGIE

What is his/her name?
My GREAT Husband!

When was the last time you had your hair cut?
About 3 weeks ago...I hated it!!

Are you on any meds?
Vitamins and Lipitor

Do you have a mental disease?
Nope. At least not that I have been told! ;-)

What shirt are you wearing?
A sleeveless purple sweater.

Are you sexy?
??????

What's your favourite store?
Just ONE????? Target, Macy's and Chicos

Are you thirsty?
Yes, very...the pop tart is gone and so is my water!!

Can you imagine yourself ever getting married?
Been there done that, got the t-shirt....18 years and counting!

Who's someone you haven't seen in a while and miss?
Suzi, Family in OH

Where do you work?
At an elementary school

I am tagging Heather, Lynn, Dan (so he'll have something to blog about, and Amy. It's kind of fun to find out stuff about other people.

I'm setting my "Monday Meme" to show up on Tuesday because I don't want it crowding out my Monday post!!!!!

Monday, April 03, 2006


My Weekend Window



KTover at KT's Bunch had this idea last week to share her weekend on Mondays. Then when I emptied out ds 4's backpack this morning, I noticed they do an activity called: My Weekend Window. So I am merging the two ideas and will be sharing a Weekend Window thanks to KT AND DS 4!

We went to Disney World this weekend. Friday was just DSs 3 and 4 and me at Epcot. It was fun. The only problem is DS 3 is ready for adventurous rides and DS 4 is not. So that left ME stuck in the middle. I could not go on the things I wanted and leave DS 4 alone to wait...SO I waited with him.

We left around 5:00 and met my cousin Lynn and her family at the resort. It was a really nice place to stay and the kids had great fun swimming in the pools. Friday night was when we met Fabio (see yesterday's post).

Saturday we went to the Magic Kingdom. Now no one does Disney like Lynn's DH! He has it all figured out. He has timed the fast pass lines, the most popular rides and their location in the park and goes turbo to get through them all. In fact, he commented to me that he can be pretty much "done" by 11:30 when the crowds are the worst. And he's right. So, we sent the adventure crew: my DS 3 and Lynn's DD1 and DS off with her DH to conquer the Kingdom.

Lynn and I set out with my DS 4 and her DD 2. They are very close in age and very similar in their likes (and dislikes) in the ride world.

I must confess here that my FAVORITE ride (currently) at Disney is Buzz Lightyear. I suppose it is my competitive nature...but I find it really fun. So, I was thrilled when our two charges announced they'd like to start in Tomorrowland...the home of Buzz Lightyear.

I was certain they would say they wanted to start there too. But, NOOOO, they BOTH decided they wanted to start with the Wedway People Mover. I realize that some of you may not know what it is...suffice it to say it is like taking a slow-moving tram ride through Tomorrow land. It is my favorite thing to do when my feet are tired and I just want to relax a few minutes....it is NOT my favorite thing to do at 9:00am when everyone is racing to be first on the best rides.

Being the mature mother that I am (ahem), I suggested that we do BUZZ and THEN do the People Mover because that way we could walk right on Buzz. My DS and Lynn's DD would hear nothing of it...they WANTED to do the People Mover and THEN Buzz. I could almost feel the crowds closing in behind us....In my plan, we could have gone on Buzz TWO TIMES before the crowds arrived....Knowing that this trip was for the kids, I reluctantly put our tickets into the Fast Pass line for Buzz Lightyear and proceeded to the ramp for the People Mover. I think I even muttered something about the two "thrillseekers" in our midst. There was NO ONE else on this ride. We were it. I am sure the ride operators had a good little chuckle over the two young kids and their mothers who skipped the other rides to go on THAT! ;-)

And so it was, the two 7-year-olds...pretty much handled the rest of the day in the Magic Kingdom in much the same fashion. As we walked with them, listened to them navigate, and helped them check off the items on their agendas, I had two thoughts....

1. Their "favorite things" don't have to be MY favorite thing. (Oops, could I be losing a bit of that control freak in me?)

and

2. Although they bill it as a place for kids, I am changing my thinking on that. You see, I decided this weekend that I wanted to do DISNEY MY WAY someday...as a grown-up who is really a kid inside...maybe even ALONE! Thrill rides, fast passes, long lines and all....(OK so maybe the control freak didn't go anywhere.)

I realize though that true purpose of it all is to enjoy time with family and get away from the real world for a while. And since that is the primary purpose, in the words of Buzz Lightyear, I must say, "Mission accomplished!"

Sunday, April 02, 2006

Who's FABIO??

My cousin, Lynn, and her family have been in Florida for Spring Break. DSs 3 and 4 and I went over to Orlando to join them for a little Disney fun. I have a couple of blogs about this, but HAD to start with this story:

On Friday night we went over to Downtown Disney. Lynn's oldest daughter wanted to eat at the Rainforest Cafe. Now I have eaten there several times (and tried to eat there MORE than I have actually gone in). You see, if you've never been there, the lines are horrific. They are often two or more hours wait....and people do it. So, Lynn's dh went to put our names in when we arrived at 7:00pm. In my head, I am thinking: "There's NO way we are going to get a seat before 9:30 or 10:00." And I told Lynn that we would eat somewhere else if that would reduce the wait-time.

SOOO....

Lynn's dh comes back and confirms what I thought...he told us that we could sit down around 9:35. It seemed like these words were no more out of his mouth when a man wearing a Rainforest Cafe uniform appeared in the darkness. He said, "How long did they tell you?" So we told him, 9:35. He said, "Oh, that's awful. How many of you in your party?" We said "eight". I think at one point we asked him if he could make the magic happen. He paused and said, "Wait right here, I am going to go see if I can get you a table. My name's Fabio." Quite frankly, I was wondering where the heck he came from and why us.

Well, Fabio came back and said, "I've got your table ready...go wait over by the TV inside. The only deal is, if you are asked how long you waited, you need to say a couple of hours." We dutifully rounded everyone up and went over by the TV.

I pictured the Rainforest Cafe workers staring at us through the TV where we were standing and saying, "Ha, ha we have some live ones here! They actually believe we are going to give them a table two hours BEFORE we told them and with all these other customers standing around."

That didn't happen. Fabio returned and escorted us to our table for eight. He took our two hour wait ticket and told us to enjoy our meal. I never saw him again.

I don't get it. We were wondering if he is paid to find people with young children and "squeeze" them in....

Whatever it was, it was a blessing. We were fed and out the door BEFORE 9:35!