Since I pretty much gave you all my weekend window as a play by play, I have decided to do a Monday Memory for my blog today. In honor of going back to school this week (for teachers) and next (for students), I thought I'd do a memory of my own school days.
Did I Ever Tell You About My Elementary School Teachers?
I attended a small school in Tampa. The school, Riverhills, was a neighborhood school with VERY few students bussed in. I started there as a first grader (no mandatory K back then) in 1970. I went there all the way through Elementary until I was bussed to the sixth grade center.
I remember all my teachers. I'd love you to meet them:
1st Grade: Mrs. Hudson was my teacher. I loved her! I learned to read in her room. I remember our textbook had a character named "Mark" in it. I loved the story about "Mark in the park after dark." Do you think I learned phonics?
The special thing about Mrs. Hudson is that she also let us read "real" books. We got to read Dr. Seuss books to partners. The person who read the most books got a prize at the end of the year. I won! I still have the little "Bookmouse" that she gave me. It was a prized posession!!
2nd Grade: Mrs. Wadsworth came along early in the school year as the original teacher had to leave. She, too, was such a great teacher. I remember doing my first book report in there on Dr. Seuss's McElligot's Pool. That year, I had an intern: Mrs. Beverly Lewis. Oddly enough, I would teach with Beverly many years later!
3rd Grade: We were in a pod during this year and "moved classes". The teachers in the pod were: Mrs. Alonso, Mrs. Woodruff, and Mrs. Hunter. I had Mrs. Hunter most of the time. I went to reading with Mrs. Woodruff. She loved to do extracurricular things with us. I remember eating "Japanese style" with kimonos and all...and taking a trip for Tacos after reading about Mexico. We also made 8mm movies with her. It was great fun.
4th Grade: Mrs. Brewer was my homeroom teacher. She loved to say funny little poems like this: Itty bitty fly upon the wall, Him got no friends at all, Him got no one to comb his hair, Him don't care, him got no hair!" I don't know why I remember that! I also went to Mrs. Almand for reading during that year. I would later go to high school with her daughter. Mrs. Almand was my language arts teacher. I made my first diorama in her class for the book, "Island of the Blue Dolphins" by Scott O'Dell. I also remember Mrs. Brewer reading "Old Yeller" to us and all of us just crying!
5th Grade: I had Mrs. Pate. She had a reputation for being a tough teacher. And she was. But, she also had a soft side. I remember doing state reports that year and having to make floats representing the state. I also remember cooking foods from "around the world" as part of social studies.
Riverhills was a very special place. The teachers genuinely seemed to like their jobs and kids. They weren't under the same pressures we are today as far as teaching and learning goes. But the common thread that makes good teachers has not changed...they must be passionate and love kids!
And that, my friends, is MY Monday Memory!!
Monday, July 31, 2006
Sunday, July 30, 2006
I Almost Missed It!!
As some of you may have read in my post from earlier today, I did a training yesterday and came home with aching feet! I really came in and crashed in bed at 6:00pm and moved as little as possible until this morning. DH left for a two-day trip today. He'll be back on Tuesday night.
This morning I woke up and went to the kitchen...which I hardly graced last night. There, on my bar, was a beautiful vase with some pretty yellow flowers (my favorite color of flower). I never even noticed them last night. So, this morning, I whispered a prayer of thanks for the blessing that my husband is to me.
Then, this evening, the younger boys and I were at the grocery picking up a few things...and I went to the Sushi section. As I got ready to pick up a pack of Sushi, DS 3 said, "Dad got you Sushi yesterday." I was floored.
When I came home, I found my favorite Sushi waiting for me in the fridge.
If only I hadn't been so focused on my sore feet! I almost missed these two little blessings from my sweet husband! He probably thinks I did miss them totally...Tonight, when he calls to let me know he's safely on the ground at his destination, I am going to tell him again what a blessing he is to me!
And, maybe the next time I feel like focusing elsewhere....I'll try looking up...there just MAY be a blessing waiting!!
This morning I woke up and went to the kitchen...which I hardly graced last night. There, on my bar, was a beautiful vase with some pretty yellow flowers (my favorite color of flower). I never even noticed them last night. So, this morning, I whispered a prayer of thanks for the blessing that my husband is to me.
Then, this evening, the younger boys and I were at the grocery picking up a few things...and I went to the Sushi section. As I got ready to pick up a pack of Sushi, DS 3 said, "Dad got you Sushi yesterday." I was floored.
When I came home, I found my favorite Sushi waiting for me in the fridge.
If only I hadn't been so focused on my sore feet! I almost missed these two little blessings from my sweet husband! He probably thinks I did miss them totally...Tonight, when he calls to let me know he's safely on the ground at his destination, I am going to tell him again what a blessing he is to me!
And, maybe the next time I feel like focusing elsewhere....I'll try looking up...there just MAY be a blessing waiting!!
Update Nuggets from the Homefront....
Here are some short updates on some of our happenings in the last couple of weeks:
- The broken computer WAS in fact able to be hooked up to a monitor and all data files are now safely on a DVD waiting for a new laptop to call home.
- DS4's pet frog is living happily in an aquarium on our porch. Last night, he and DH added a new "friend" to the cage. DS 4 announced proudly: "Mom, I hope this one's not a girl, cause then we're going to have babies!" As a reminder, I HATE FROGS! Heaven help me!!!
- DSs 1, 2, and 3 have spent the week at church for Youth Week. They continue to amaze me as they explore who it is that God wants them to be! Last night, they took a bunch of boys to see The Power Team in Clearwater. The boys all spent the night here. It was so funny because when they came home, after 11, you could feel the energy rise in the house---even though they were trying to be SO quiet. It's a GUY THING!?!?!
- I did a presentation yesterday...the third one this week. My FEET are KILLING me! I am not sure what the problem is, although a friend told me it's what happens as you age (she knows my birthday is right around the corner). That STINKS! Anyway, I came home yesterday and propped my burning, throbbing, feet up high on some pillows and pretty much did nothing until this morning.
- Now, I am getting ready to head off to church. DH leaves for a few days right after church. He is traveling more and more. I am happy for him...and know this is what he is called to do...but I am STILL not a good "single Mom". Although, as the guys get older, they are more helpful and that is good.
- School starts on Tuesday for teachers. I have to work tomorrow too to get files that I was supposed to have copied from that wonderful laptop!
That's all the nuggets I have to share now. Have a GREAT Sunday!!
Friday, July 28, 2006
Changes....
As I face the week we return to school, and think about what the new year will bring, the word "CHANGE" keeps coming up. Today, I did a Google search and found some great quotes about this topic. I thought I would share some of these nuggets....
We spend our time searching for security and hate it when we get it. ~John Steinbeck, America and Americans
He who rejects change is the architect of decay. The only human institution which rejects progress is the cemetery. ~Harold Wilson
If you don't like something change it; if you can't change it, change the way you think about it. ~Mary Engelbreit
Neither a wise man nor a brave man lies down on the tracks of history to wait for the train of the future to run over him. ~Dwight D. Eisenhower
It is not the strongest of the species that survive, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change. ~Author unknown
If you want to truly understand something, try to change it. ~Kurt Lewin
After you've done a thing the same way for two years, look it over carefully. After five years, look at it with suspicion. And after ten years, throw it away and start all over. ~Alfred Edward Perlman, New York Times, 3 July 1958
The only difference between a rut and a grave is their dimensions. ~Ellen Glasgow
Continuity gives us roots; change gives us branches, letting us stretch and grow and reach new heights. ~Pauline R. Kezer
We spend our time searching for security and hate it when we get it. ~John Steinbeck, America and Americans
He who rejects change is the architect of decay. The only human institution which rejects progress is the cemetery. ~Harold Wilson
If you don't like something change it; if you can't change it, change the way you think about it. ~Mary Engelbreit
Neither a wise man nor a brave man lies down on the tracks of history to wait for the train of the future to run over him. ~Dwight D. Eisenhower
It is not the strongest of the species that survive, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change. ~Author unknown
If you want to truly understand something, try to change it. ~Kurt Lewin
After you've done a thing the same way for two years, look it over carefully. After five years, look at it with suspicion. And after ten years, throw it away and start all over. ~Alfred Edward Perlman, New York Times, 3 July 1958
The only difference between a rut and a grave is their dimensions. ~Ellen Glasgow
Continuity gives us roots; change gives us branches, letting us stretch and grow and reach new heights. ~Pauline R. Kezer
Thursday, July 27, 2006
Thursday Thirteen #26
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Better late than never.... 1. A laptop can be run over and not look like it (until you turn it on). 2. Back-up files, back-up files, back-up files!! 3. Sometimes one of your kids surprises you and makes a decision that shows more maturity, wisdom, and spirituatlity than you EVER did at their age and sometimes even more-so than you occasionally do now. 4. When you stand all day in nice shoes...your feet can swell big time and hurt for MORE than a day! 5. I CAN wing a three hour presentation with little or no PowerPoint and still get a good response! 6. My boss thinks I am a black and white....always goes by the rule book....girl! Boy, I think I have him fooled!!! 7. Some people in entertainment have different names than their stage names. I knew this...but was surprised at WHO was on Greg and Christie's TT list! I am STUMPED!! Then I discovered Dan's TT and now I KNOW I have some things to learn!! 8. The Space Shuttle is delivered to it's launch pad by a machine made in the small town where I was born at the company where my uncle worked! 9. I am going to miss my kids when they are not at home anymore...the house has been too quiet too many nights this week (and for that matter, the entire summer---with three of the four often gone). 10. I will be speaking to 500 principals in North Carolina in October. I'm already "Goin' to Carolina in my mind"! 11. People who are not driven or passionate about SOMETHING annoy me!! 12. Laughter really IS a good medicine! I've had the opportunity to laugh a lot this week. 13. And, Mary, those NAPS are a GREAT revitalizer!!!!! |
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Tuesday, July 25, 2006
And the saga continues...
I received my laptop back today and it looked fine. When you turn it on, however, it's obvious that the screen is cracked as you can see nothing. It's cracked on the inside.
Now, the good news is...it appears to be going on like normal. The bad news is...I can't see anything to save and back-up. I have emailed my friend who is a Mac expert and will see what she can do.
In the meantime, I found out (thank goodness) that the computer is covered under School Board insurance, so I don't have to pay for it.
I have to give presentations tomorrow, Thursday, and Saturday. They are on my computer. I DO have Overhead back-ups, so that is a good thing. Still, the presentations would be more impressive with the PowerPoint. Thank goodness, teachers are a very forgiving bunch.
Now, if you could, please whisper a prayer that I will be able to recover my files without too much trouble!
As my friend, Cindy says, "It's just an EVENT!" She's right. It could be MUCH worse!!
Now, the good news is...it appears to be going on like normal. The bad news is...I can't see anything to save and back-up. I have emailed my friend who is a Mac expert and will see what she can do.
In the meantime, I found out (thank goodness) that the computer is covered under School Board insurance, so I don't have to pay for it.
I have to give presentations tomorrow, Thursday, and Saturday. They are on my computer. I DO have Overhead back-ups, so that is a good thing. Still, the presentations would be more impressive with the PowerPoint. Thank goodness, teachers are a very forgiving bunch.
Now, if you could, please whisper a prayer that I will be able to recover my files without too much trouble!
As my friend, Cindy says, "It's just an EVENT!" She's right. It could be MUCH worse!!
Monday, July 24, 2006
My Weekend Window: Act III
Act III: The Cranky Mother
All good stories have to have a little drama. Our weekend was no different. It was pretty much smooth sailing until today.
This morning, we slept in. Around 10:30, we checked out of our hotel. DS 3 played bellman and took all of our stuff down on the luggage cart. He and DS 2 emptied the cart into my car.
We loaded up and started the engine while DS 2 finished loading the last few things and DS 3 returned the cart to the hotel. It wasn't long until we were on the road.
Upon our arrival home, I told everyone to start unloading the car. They did without grumbling, fussing, or complaining. I'll bet you're saying to yourself, "So, where's the cranky mother and the drama come in??"
It wasn't long after the car was unloaded that I looked for my laptop case. DSs 2 and 3 said the "other one" loaded it into the car. I made them go look again..with no avail. Like a mad-woman, I started going through everyone's bags looking for the laptop (which isn't really mine at all...but is the school's!). They remained relatively non-chalant while I ran around like a chicken with my head cut off!
I nervously dialed the hotel and talked to a nice girl over there. She told me, "Yes, we found it in the parking lot!" The parking lot! I didn't know whether to rejoice or SCREAM! As I envisioned driving the 6 hour round trip to retrieve my laptop, the kind voice on the other end of the phone said, "I'm so glad you called. I've been worried about it all day. I'll FED-EX it to you." I said, "OK" and hung up the phone.
So ends my pretty calm weekend. It's true that "all's well that ends well." And while my laptop is not back in my hands (yet) I know that it is OK and that it will be by the end of tomorrow.
And that, my blogging friends, is the whole weekend story!!
All good stories have to have a little drama. Our weekend was no different. It was pretty much smooth sailing until today.
This morning, we slept in. Around 10:30, we checked out of our hotel. DS 3 played bellman and took all of our stuff down on the luggage cart. He and DS 2 emptied the cart into my car.
We loaded up and started the engine while DS 2 finished loading the last few things and DS 3 returned the cart to the hotel. It wasn't long until we were on the road.
Upon our arrival home, I told everyone to start unloading the car. They did without grumbling, fussing, or complaining. I'll bet you're saying to yourself, "So, where's the cranky mother and the drama come in??"
It wasn't long after the car was unloaded that I looked for my laptop case. DSs 2 and 3 said the "other one" loaded it into the car. I made them go look again..with no avail. Like a mad-woman, I started going through everyone's bags looking for the laptop (which isn't really mine at all...but is the school's!). They remained relatively non-chalant while I ran around like a chicken with my head cut off!
I nervously dialed the hotel and talked to a nice girl over there. She told me, "Yes, we found it in the parking lot!" The parking lot! I didn't know whether to rejoice or SCREAM! As I envisioned driving the 6 hour round trip to retrieve my laptop, the kind voice on the other end of the phone said, "I'm so glad you called. I've been worried about it all day. I'll FED-EX it to you." I said, "OK" and hung up the phone.
So ends my pretty calm weekend. It's true that "all's well that ends well." And while my laptop is not back in my hands (yet) I know that it is OK and that it will be by the end of tomorrow.
And that, my blogging friends, is the whole weekend story!!
My Weekend Window: Act II
Act II: The Kennedy Space Center
Yesterday, we went to The Kennedy Space Center. It was fun. Here's our "crew" standing with astronaut Charlie Walker. It was kind of neat (although DS 2 may tell a different story) to get to hear them tell of their adventure in space. He's a scientist, so it wasn't like going and hearing an awesome speaker...it was obvious though that he loves his work. DS 4 even got to ask a question during his presentation. I think he liked that.
Another interesting "tid-bit" about this act. The bus tour drove us by the VAB (Vehicle Assembly Building)where space shuttles (and rockets) are housed for maintenance.
She pointed out this machine (I forget it's official name.) that is designed to transport the shuttle out to the launch pad. It takes almost 8 hours to move the shuttle the entire three miles. This vehicle's top speed is 1 mile per hour! It also uses 150 gallons of gas per MILE!
She told us that there are only two in the entire USA and they are both housed here at KSC. Then, she said, "These machines were made at the Marion Shovel Company in Marion, Ohio." I almost fell out of my seat! I was born in Marion (a small town in Ohio). I have family that still lives there. The Shovel is where my Uncle worked until he retired. Small world, isn't it?
Even though we ended our day in a torrential rain storm, it was fun to go explore this exciting attraction as you can tell by the looks on this crew's faces!
Yesterday, we went to The Kennedy Space Center. It was fun. Here's our "crew" standing with astronaut Charlie Walker. It was kind of neat (although DS 2 may tell a different story) to get to hear them tell of their adventure in space. He's a scientist, so it wasn't like going and hearing an awesome speaker...it was obvious though that he loves his work. DS 4 even got to ask a question during his presentation. I think he liked that.
Another interesting "tid-bit" about this act. The bus tour drove us by the VAB (Vehicle Assembly Building)where space shuttles (and rockets) are housed for maintenance.
She pointed out this machine (I forget it's official name.) that is designed to transport the shuttle out to the launch pad. It takes almost 8 hours to move the shuttle the entire three miles. This vehicle's top speed is 1 mile per hour! It also uses 150 gallons of gas per MILE!
She told us that there are only two in the entire USA and they are both housed here at KSC. Then, she said, "These machines were made at the Marion Shovel Company in Marion, Ohio." I almost fell out of my seat! I was born in Marion (a small town in Ohio). I have family that still lives there. The Shovel is where my Uncle worked until he retired. Small world, isn't it?
Even though we ended our day in a torrential rain storm, it was fun to go explore this exciting attraction as you can tell by the looks on this crew's faces!
My Weekend Window in Three Acts
Act I: The Soccer Tournament
For those of you read regularly, you know that I spent the weekend in Cocoa Beach at DS 2's soccer tournament. His team just went "Premiere" which means they are playing at a higher level and will be having more and more "away" tournaments and games.
We played our first game on Friday evening, two on Saturday and one on Sunday. Their record for the tournament was 2 wins and 2 losses. They did not make it to the final due to this record. This photo shows DS 2 in the center.
My favorite moment of the tournament happened in a non-tournament event, though. Yesterday morning, our team was scheduled to play a team from Mexico. Their record in the tournament was not good at all. They were losing 6 and 7 to zero. In fact, we heard they called one of their games at the half. Our game was no different. It was quickly 6-0. They only played a 30 minute first half (vs. the normal 45 minutes) and suddenly we were told the Mexicans called the game. It was obvious from the outset that many of the Mexican players were smaller than our boys. I later found out that many were MUCH younger. They had to register in the division of the oldest person on their team (U-17) and this despite the majority of the team being U-14.
As we packed up our belongings, and most parents were already half way across the field to leave, we noticed people coming back toward the bleachers. The buzz was great and the news spread, "The boys don't want to stop playing. They are going to mix up the teams and play for fun." And, in a moment of true sportsmanship unlike any other I have witnessed, these boys from two very different cultures dropped all their differences, blended their teams to form two NEW teams and played the game simply "for fun". It actually brought a tear to my eye (I know I am a sap anyway!). Still, it made me proud that these guys could think about this Mexican team and help them enjoy the tournament that had been pretty miserable for them up to that point.
For those of you read regularly, you know that I spent the weekend in Cocoa Beach at DS 2's soccer tournament. His team just went "Premiere" which means they are playing at a higher level and will be having more and more "away" tournaments and games.
We played our first game on Friday evening, two on Saturday and one on Sunday. Their record for the tournament was 2 wins and 2 losses. They did not make it to the final due to this record. This photo shows DS 2 in the center.
My favorite moment of the tournament happened in a non-tournament event, though. Yesterday morning, our team was scheduled to play a team from Mexico. Their record in the tournament was not good at all. They were losing 6 and 7 to zero. In fact, we heard they called one of their games at the half. Our game was no different. It was quickly 6-0. They only played a 30 minute first half (vs. the normal 45 minutes) and suddenly we were told the Mexicans called the game. It was obvious from the outset that many of the Mexican players were smaller than our boys. I later found out that many were MUCH younger. They had to register in the division of the oldest person on their team (U-17) and this despite the majority of the team being U-14.
As we packed up our belongings, and most parents were already half way across the field to leave, we noticed people coming back toward the bleachers. The buzz was great and the news spread, "The boys don't want to stop playing. They are going to mix up the teams and play for fun." And, in a moment of true sportsmanship unlike any other I have witnessed, these boys from two very different cultures dropped all their differences, blended their teams to form two NEW teams and played the game simply "for fun". It actually brought a tear to my eye (I know I am a sap anyway!). Still, it made me proud that these guys could think about this Mexican team and help them enjoy the tournament that had been pretty miserable for them up to that point.
Saturday, July 22, 2006
Who Knew?
DS 2 is playing in a soccer tournament this weekend. On the way to the field early this morning, he was quizzing DS 4 on all things soccer. He asked, "Which player scored more than 1000 goals in his lifetime?" DS 4 could not answer right away...but DS 2 kept giving him clues until they came up with the name Pele'. I non-chalantly said, "I saw him play once."
DS 2 was beyond surprised and let me know it. He couldn't believe that I had never told him. He said, "That is not something that you keep quiet, Mom." Then, he said he was going to announce it to the whole team when he got to the field.
I told him that if I had known it would elevate me to such status with him I certainly would have told him this information years ago.
So, I am announcing it to the blogging world....In 1980 or 81, I saw the great Pele' play....against the Tampa Bay Rowdies. I remember that the entire stadium went crazy because they knew the importance of this man.
I just don't have the heart to tell him that as a teen in high school, I was MUCH more excited about seeing Wes McLeod (Tampa Bay's #8) play!
I am pretty sure that little nugget of truth will knock me right back to just a normal Mom status pretty quickly...Shhhh!!! He won't know until he reads this blog!
Thursday, July 20, 2006
Extra! Extra!
For some reason tonight I feel the need to do an extra update tonight. It's been a busy week around here...and there's quite a bit to share.
1. My friend's daughter had the baby last night. He weighed in at just over three pounds and is already breathing on his own! His Mother is doing OK and is starting to stabilize. It's still going to be a bit of a challenge in the next few weeks...but this is MUCH better than it could have been earlier in the week. They are crediting all the prayer with their miracles. Thank you to those of you who were part of the praying world.
2. My small group was going to go make a hospital visit tonight...but could not get in to see her. Instead we went to dinner. It's been a few weeks since we actually were all together. I am so thankful for this group of women! We can laugh, cry, and share our hearts with one another. That is a treasure to me!
3. When I came home from dinner, there was a double rainbow in the sky. It was a beautiful reminder that God keeps His promises!!
4. As I arrived home, I saw the most precious site...ds 1 and ds 4 outside fishing in our pond. DS 4 caught a small bass and DS 1 helped him get it off the line. He was so excited. As he put his line back in the water, and after DS 1 went back inside, however, he noticed a gator (yes, an ALLIGATOR) swimming his way toward his line (it only had bread on it). DS 4 did the right thing and made his way to our porch. DS 1 ran back outside to help him get his line in. I've lived in Florida all my life and don't recall seeing alligators as frequently as I have in the past three or so years! I don't like that!!!! Still....it was precious watching DS 1 tell DS 4 how he "did the right thing."
5. DS 3 got his haircut today. This was a BIG DEAL...since he hasn't had it cut for over a year. It's the "in" thing right now to have it long. For those of you who read my blog regularly, you'll know that hair is not a battle I'll fight. It can be cut. It grows back. It's not an argument worth having (in my opinion). BUT I have been trying to explain to him that long hair grows better (and more healthy) if you keep the dead ends cut...he was scared to go...but the girl did a good job. It's cleaned up and Mom's happy!!
6. DS 2 received a nice compliment today at soccer. He has been in a camp all week and yesterday they were visited by a HUGE international player and coach...don't ask who cause I don't know...but anyway, he told DS's coach what a good player he is and that he knows the game. I know it made DS 2 feel good that someone noticed his play.
7. Tomorrow we leave for Cocoa Beach for the weekend. DS 2 is playing in a soccer tournament there. I am taking DSs 2, 3, and 4, My Mother, and DS 2's girlfriend. It should be a nice weekend get away.
See...I told you I had a lot of updates!! Have a GREAT night!!
1. My friend's daughter had the baby last night. He weighed in at just over three pounds and is already breathing on his own! His Mother is doing OK and is starting to stabilize. It's still going to be a bit of a challenge in the next few weeks...but this is MUCH better than it could have been earlier in the week. They are crediting all the prayer with their miracles. Thank you to those of you who were part of the praying world.
2. My small group was going to go make a hospital visit tonight...but could not get in to see her. Instead we went to dinner. It's been a few weeks since we actually were all together. I am so thankful for this group of women! We can laugh, cry, and share our hearts with one another. That is a treasure to me!
3. When I came home from dinner, there was a double rainbow in the sky. It was a beautiful reminder that God keeps His promises!!
4. As I arrived home, I saw the most precious site...ds 1 and ds 4 outside fishing in our pond. DS 4 caught a small bass and DS 1 helped him get it off the line. He was so excited. As he put his line back in the water, and after DS 1 went back inside, however, he noticed a gator (yes, an ALLIGATOR) swimming his way toward his line (it only had bread on it). DS 4 did the right thing and made his way to our porch. DS 1 ran back outside to help him get his line in. I've lived in Florida all my life and don't recall seeing alligators as frequently as I have in the past three or so years! I don't like that!!!! Still....it was precious watching DS 1 tell DS 4 how he "did the right thing."
5. DS 3 got his haircut today. This was a BIG DEAL...since he hasn't had it cut for over a year. It's the "in" thing right now to have it long. For those of you who read my blog regularly, you'll know that hair is not a battle I'll fight. It can be cut. It grows back. It's not an argument worth having (in my opinion). BUT I have been trying to explain to him that long hair grows better (and more healthy) if you keep the dead ends cut...he was scared to go...but the girl did a good job. It's cleaned up and Mom's happy!!
6. DS 2 received a nice compliment today at soccer. He has been in a camp all week and yesterday they were visited by a HUGE international player and coach...don't ask who cause I don't know...but anyway, he told DS's coach what a good player he is and that he knows the game. I know it made DS 2 feel good that someone noticed his play.
7. Tomorrow we leave for Cocoa Beach for the weekend. DS 2 is playing in a soccer tournament there. I am taking DSs 2, 3, and 4, My Mother, and DS 2's girlfriend. It should be a nice weekend get away.
See...I told you I had a lot of updates!! Have a GREAT night!!
Thursday Thirteen #25
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1. Most Recently....Beetle Bomp  2. Magic Vines  3. Bookworm  4. Word Racer  5. I used to do the Crossword Puzzle here every single day without fail. 6. After the crossword puzzle, I would play one to three hands of Spades. 7. Then I would play one game of Solitaire. 8. After I "left" Garfield Games, I discovered Poppit 9. I also loved "Sweet Tooth" at the Pogo site. 10. Then, my brothers got us started in Fantasy Football This has become quite the family event where everyone coaches a team and we compete against each other every week. 11. Tetris (We played this before we had "online" options.)  12. When the boys were younger I played quite a bit of Lion King Pinball. 13. And the game that "started it all".....PAC MAN!  |
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Wednesday, July 19, 2006
Tuesday, July 18, 2006
More Sad News....
OK...it seems like when it rains, it pours, you know?
I got a call this morning from a very dear friend of mine. Her daughter is 30 weeks pregnant. This has been a high risk pregnancy from the start due to many many health issues of the mother. She has miscarried several times in the past. This baby, though, little Ben, has "made it" to this viable part of the pregnancy.
Yesterday, Ben and his mother, were admitted to our local hospital. She was diagnosed with Toxemia and they began medication to lower the blood pressure.
I just got the evening update from my friend. The doctors are "not concerned" about Ben. They are pumping her with steroids in an effort to help develop his lungs for this early delivery. They are saying that Ben weighs 4 pounds. Now, they are VERY CONCERNED about Ben's mother. Her kidneys are starting to shut down and there is swelling in the brain.
PLEASE...PLEASE...PLEASE say a prayer for this family!!!!!! They need a miracle. My heart is heavy for all of them. Please pray that little Ben's delivery goes well and the doctors in the NICU are able to care for him. Pray for Ben's Mom.
I appreciate it. Thanks to all, in advance.
I got a call this morning from a very dear friend of mine. Her daughter is 30 weeks pregnant. This has been a high risk pregnancy from the start due to many many health issues of the mother. She has miscarried several times in the past. This baby, though, little Ben, has "made it" to this viable part of the pregnancy.
Yesterday, Ben and his mother, were admitted to our local hospital. She was diagnosed with Toxemia and they began medication to lower the blood pressure.
I just got the evening update from my friend. The doctors are "not concerned" about Ben. They are pumping her with steroids in an effort to help develop his lungs for this early delivery. They are saying that Ben weighs 4 pounds. Now, they are VERY CONCERNED about Ben's mother. Her kidneys are starting to shut down and there is swelling in the brain.
PLEASE...PLEASE...PLEASE say a prayer for this family!!!!!! They need a miracle. My heart is heavy for all of them. Please pray that little Ben's delivery goes well and the doctors in the NICU are able to care for him. Pray for Ben's Mom.
I appreciate it. Thanks to all, in advance.
A Sad Story
I am feeling like my blog is getting really deep this week. I learned about a family at my school yesterday and it has broken my heart. The Mother was out of town at a conference. Dad stayed home with his two daughters (1st and 3rd grade).
Mom came back to town on Saturday morning and stopped by her work for something. While there, she got a call from one of the girls who said, "Mommy, will you come home and make us some breakfast? We're hungry."
The Mother told the girls to go get Daddy to make breakfast. The girl said, "He's asleep and he won't wake up." Mom replied, "Well, try to wake him up again." The little girl did. Hearing the girls try to wake up their Dad, the Mother began to panic and went straight home only to find her husband had passed away sometime in his sleep.
This just breaks my heart! He was only in his 40's. The girls are confused and don't know what to think. And to top it all off, I found out yesterday that the family had no life insurance.
If you are visiting here today and find it in your heart to do so...please whisper a prayer for this family. Many many people in our school community are reaching out to them with support.
This is the third family at my school to lose a parent in the last 6 months. One girl called 911 when her Mother died in the Spring. One boy's Dad was shot while running from police. And we wonder why they can't sit still and learn the things we need them to in class.
It's hard to blog when you are sad.
Mom came back to town on Saturday morning and stopped by her work for something. While there, she got a call from one of the girls who said, "Mommy, will you come home and make us some breakfast? We're hungry."
The Mother told the girls to go get Daddy to make breakfast. The girl said, "He's asleep and he won't wake up." Mom replied, "Well, try to wake him up again." The little girl did. Hearing the girls try to wake up their Dad, the Mother began to panic and went straight home only to find her husband had passed away sometime in his sleep.
This just breaks my heart! He was only in his 40's. The girls are confused and don't know what to think. And to top it all off, I found out yesterday that the family had no life insurance.
If you are visiting here today and find it in your heart to do so...please whisper a prayer for this family. Many many people in our school community are reaching out to them with support.
This is the third family at my school to lose a parent in the last 6 months. One girl called 911 when her Mother died in the Spring. One boy's Dad was shot while running from police. And we wonder why they can't sit still and learn the things we need them to in class.
It's hard to blog when you are sad.
Monday, July 17, 2006
More things on my mind...
Yesterday's post stirred some thoughts and comments in the blogging world. So, I have been doing some more thinking.
I love blogging. I love reading other people's blogs. And I love it when people come and visit my blog. As some of you know, my brothers have recently started their own blogs. I also read the blog of my SIL and my cousin. I know that my Dad, Stepmother, and In-laws all read our blogs and often comment on them. This is a GREAT way to keep up with family for sure. In fact, when my Dad and I were talking about it recently, he said, "It's a neat way to keep up. I just don't know why you would want to read a stranger's blog." I could try to explain it...but I am not sure I can really help him understand.
I feel like I "know" so many of you. I look forward to visiting your blogs and seeing what is happening with you. Of course, I am sure that things would be different in real life. But I really have blogs that I check on everyday just so I can see how you're doing. And just like real life, there are some that I check on every day and feel "closer" to. There are others that I may drop in on occasionally because it is more of a casual acquaintance. And, quite honestly, there are some that I have never revisited after a first time through.
So, here's my thought:
If we met each other in real life, would we be friends?
I would hope that for many people whose blogs I read regularly, the answer would be "Absolutely!" Sadly, though, I am not so sure this is true. Making friends takes time. Friendship has to be cultivated. It is a two way street...as each person determines if the relationship is one that is worth investing in and as each person reveals more and more of who he or she is.
The thing that blogging does (in a strange way) is remove those little judgements that we make about a person's mannerisms and general behavior (OK, maybe you don't, but I have been known to do this.) as we journey together. While the "first impression" is still there in a way...it really isn't. With those stumbling blocks removed, though, I am sure I have given some people in cyber-space more "attention" than I might have given someone in my personal life. In fact, I may be a "better cyberfriend" at times.
No, I can't explain this strange world of blogging. But, I'm glad I'm in it. And I'm glad that many of you are in it, too!
Some of you have been blogging much longer than I have. I know that some of you have arranged to meet in real life and have had a wonderful time getting to know those people that you keep up with regularly. I hope that this happens for me someday with some of my "cyber-friends".
In the meantime, I hope that you'll feel free to "stop in and visit occasionally!"
:-)
I love blogging. I love reading other people's blogs. And I love it when people come and visit my blog. As some of you know, my brothers have recently started their own blogs. I also read the blog of my SIL and my cousin. I know that my Dad, Stepmother, and In-laws all read our blogs and often comment on them. This is a GREAT way to keep up with family for sure. In fact, when my Dad and I were talking about it recently, he said, "It's a neat way to keep up. I just don't know why you would want to read a stranger's blog." I could try to explain it...but I am not sure I can really help him understand.
I feel like I "know" so many of you. I look forward to visiting your blogs and seeing what is happening with you. Of course, I am sure that things would be different in real life. But I really have blogs that I check on everyday just so I can see how you're doing. And just like real life, there are some that I check on every day and feel "closer" to. There are others that I may drop in on occasionally because it is more of a casual acquaintance. And, quite honestly, there are some that I have never revisited after a first time through.
So, here's my thought:
If we met each other in real life, would we be friends?
I would hope that for many people whose blogs I read regularly, the answer would be "Absolutely!" Sadly, though, I am not so sure this is true. Making friends takes time. Friendship has to be cultivated. It is a two way street...as each person determines if the relationship is one that is worth investing in and as each person reveals more and more of who he or she is.
The thing that blogging does (in a strange way) is remove those little judgements that we make about a person's mannerisms and general behavior (OK, maybe you don't, but I have been known to do this.) as we journey together. While the "first impression" is still there in a way...it really isn't. With those stumbling blocks removed, though, I am sure I have given some people in cyber-space more "attention" than I might have given someone in my personal life. In fact, I may be a "better cyberfriend" at times.
No, I can't explain this strange world of blogging. But, I'm glad I'm in it. And I'm glad that many of you are in it, too!
Some of you have been blogging much longer than I have. I know that some of you have arranged to meet in real life and have had a wonderful time getting to know those people that you keep up with regularly. I hope that this happens for me someday with some of my "cyber-friends".
In the meantime, I hope that you'll feel free to "stop in and visit occasionally!"
:-)
Sunday, July 16, 2006
An Interesting Interaction...
This morning at church I had an interesting interaction with someone I have never met before. It has had me thinking all day, so I thought I'd share it here.
This woman, K, came over and said, "I hear you are the Pastor's wife. I wanted to introduce myself to you. I was hoping to get to know you. I'm K."
I said hello and shook her hand. Before I could say or do anything else, she launched into a whole story about how they ended up at our church. I stood quietly and listened. I learned a lot in those few minutes, but I spoke VERY little. When I would take a breath to interject or ask a question, off she'd go again without me having to say anything. At one point, she did ask me about my kids...and when I showed her three of them and explained that the fourth was in the praise band...it was as if I had said nothing because she immediately started telling me about her kids. A few minutes later, she asked me how many kids I have...as if I had never said anything to begin with!
I was quite exasperated by the time she left. The entire exchange was about 7 - 10 minutes long and I literally listened and nodded most of the time.
Here's what has had me thinking. When she came to me, she said, "I was hoping to get to know you." Really, she doesn't know anything about me. The entire conversation was about her family and how they ended up where they are now. I DO know quite a bit about her.
This is not to be judgemental. It simply reminded me that the person who is doing the most talking is really not learning much at all. It takes listening to learn. If you want to know something, you have to be quiet. You have to listen. You have to ask the questions. You have to observe. Certainly, you can talk...but it's a delicate balance, isn't it?
I have been like this before. I have monopolized a conversation. I have shifted the focus to me or something about me rather than really focus in on the other person. I know it.
K is a nice person. I can tell she's had a lot of experiences in different kinds of churches. I know that she really enjoys the worship at our church. I know about her family. And that's OK.
I think this exchange served to remind me that I need to practice the art of listening and learning. I think there's a lot of wisdom in it.
This woman, K, came over and said, "I hear you are the Pastor's wife. I wanted to introduce myself to you. I was hoping to get to know you. I'm K."
I said hello and shook her hand. Before I could say or do anything else, she launched into a whole story about how they ended up at our church. I stood quietly and listened. I learned a lot in those few minutes, but I spoke VERY little. When I would take a breath to interject or ask a question, off she'd go again without me having to say anything. At one point, she did ask me about my kids...and when I showed her three of them and explained that the fourth was in the praise band...it was as if I had said nothing because she immediately started telling me about her kids. A few minutes later, she asked me how many kids I have...as if I had never said anything to begin with!
I was quite exasperated by the time she left. The entire exchange was about 7 - 10 minutes long and I literally listened and nodded most of the time.
Here's what has had me thinking. When she came to me, she said, "I was hoping to get to know you." Really, she doesn't know anything about me. The entire conversation was about her family and how they ended up where they are now. I DO know quite a bit about her.
This is not to be judgemental. It simply reminded me that the person who is doing the most talking is really not learning much at all. It takes listening to learn. If you want to know something, you have to be quiet. You have to listen. You have to ask the questions. You have to observe. Certainly, you can talk...but it's a delicate balance, isn't it?
I have been like this before. I have monopolized a conversation. I have shifted the focus to me or something about me rather than really focus in on the other person. I know it.
K is a nice person. I can tell she's had a lot of experiences in different kinds of churches. I know that she really enjoys the worship at our church. I know about her family. And that's OK.
I think this exchange served to remind me that I need to practice the art of listening and learning. I think there's a lot of wisdom in it.
Saturday, July 15, 2006
Wendy Wing's Emmy Gown
My cousin, Lynn decided to participate in Mysterious Lady's effort to find Wendy Wings a gown for her trip to the Emmys. Since I am quite jealous that someone I "know" (even if it is via blogging) gets to go to the Emmy's....I thought it would be fun to participate in this little challenge. I know I am signing on late...I have seen some beautiful gowns picked out already...but here is the one from Alberta Ferretti that I found:
There are so many pretty gown!! I can't wait to see what she actually picks!!
There are so many pretty gown!! I can't wait to see what she actually picks!!
Ribbit...ribbit
Some of you read my story about my FIL coming over to rescue me from the dreaded tree frog. DS 4 (our animal lover) has not stopped talking about this new pet!! He and dh researched keeping them as pets. They have talked about it...and planned..although no progress was made on it yesterday. Actually, I thought the idea might "die" (not the frog) and we might convince DS 4 to put the frog out in our pond....
This morning, I slept in. The house was strangely quiet for 9:30. Usually I can hear DH or DS 4 since they are early birds. I looked around and couldn't find them. My car was gone. I thought, "Maybe they just went up to the store...." Although I didn't know why they would do that since DH made a grocery run last night.
TWO HOURS passed. With every minute passing, I knew this could NOT be good. DH does NOT like to shop. He is quick about it. DS 1 woke up and called his Dad. When asked what they were doing, DH replied, "You'll have to see when we get home."
Not long after the phone call, DH and DS 4 enter the house with a new Bunny Cage (to replace the cage we already have), a new picture of a whale, a Hershey Kiss Fondue Pot and............YEP, you guessed it right......an aquarium for the frog.
Now, DS 3 has taken to research on the Internet (as if we need more research) to identify it. Ten minutes ago, I walked out to find DH, DS 4, and DS 3 claiming, "We think it's a girl." Ppppuuuulllleeeeaaazzzeee!!!!! Why does this matter? DS 3 assures me that it DOES matter because it's the "boys who sing."
I can take almost anything. Nothing really surprises me anymore. Now we have to go buy crickets or meal worms for this frog to eat....although if you buy mealworms, you have to make sure they are dead because otherwise they grow in the frog's stomach and kill it. And, by the way, you should NOT put small pebbles in the bottom of the cage because it might accidentally eat one....I am actually starting to wonder how they survive in the wild...you know, without human intervention!
As I said before, I hate these things. I go to great lengths to avoid them in the evening. I NEVER would have dreamed that I'd have one living in MY house.. I guess it comes with the territory (I mean FOUR boys). Oh well, they can figure out how to care for it and feed it.....Maybe DH knew that if he "cared for" and "fed me" with his Garage Sale finds, that I would warm up to the idea.
So, with that thought in mind, I think I'm going to have some melted chocolate now and try to forget about it!!! ;-)
This morning, I slept in. The house was strangely quiet for 9:30. Usually I can hear DH or DS 4 since they are early birds. I looked around and couldn't find them. My car was gone. I thought, "Maybe they just went up to the store...." Although I didn't know why they would do that since DH made a grocery run last night.
TWO HOURS passed. With every minute passing, I knew this could NOT be good. DH does NOT like to shop. He is quick about it. DS 1 woke up and called his Dad. When asked what they were doing, DH replied, "You'll have to see when we get home."
Not long after the phone call, DH and DS 4 enter the house with a new Bunny Cage (to replace the cage we already have), a new picture of a whale, a Hershey Kiss Fondue Pot and............YEP, you guessed it right......an aquarium for the frog.
Now, DS 3 has taken to research on the Internet (as if we need more research) to identify it. Ten minutes ago, I walked out to find DH, DS 4, and DS 3 claiming, "We think it's a girl." Ppppuuuulllleeeeaaazzzeee!!!!! Why does this matter? DS 3 assures me that it DOES matter because it's the "boys who sing."
I can take almost anything. Nothing really surprises me anymore. Now we have to go buy crickets or meal worms for this frog to eat....although if you buy mealworms, you have to make sure they are dead because otherwise they grow in the frog's stomach and kill it. And, by the way, you should NOT put small pebbles in the bottom of the cage because it might accidentally eat one....I am actually starting to wonder how they survive in the wild...you know, without human intervention!
As I said before, I hate these things. I go to great lengths to avoid them in the evening. I NEVER would have dreamed that I'd have one living in MY house.. I guess it comes with the territory (I mean FOUR boys). Oh well, they can figure out how to care for it and feed it.....Maybe DH knew that if he "cared for" and "fed me" with his Garage Sale finds, that I would warm up to the idea.
So, with that thought in mind, I think I'm going to have some melted chocolate now and try to forget about it!!! ;-)
Friday, July 14, 2006
The Quiet Nights are Over
If you read my blog regularly, then you know that my three older DSs have been gone to a Youth Retreat this week in Daytona Beach. DH was gone one day and I was out three days. But when we were home, it was quiet. Tonight the three older boys returned. I am amazed at how the energy level changes when you throw just three more bodies into the mix. It may be the testosterone. It may be that they are all teens and preteens....but it's energy, nonetheless.
I like it though. In fact, I think it's rather dull without them around. We got an update on their week away.
DS 1 is now in his room recording music that he has "in his head". He really enjoyed the music at the youth week and is excited about writing his own music to share with youth groups.
DS 2 just finished watching the video of the World Cup Final Game. He came home and immediately asked, "Is there a way that I can earn $40/month?" I wondered why...and he quickly pulled a picture out of his suitcase of a young 6yo boy from a third world country. He wants to sponsor him until he is 18. Then, he wants to pay the $350/month to send him to college....He assured me that by this time, he would be out and making money on his own.
DS 3 immediately began looking up some of the great pictures they were shown this week of outer space. The speaker showed them some amazing pictures and connected it to the wonder of God. Actually, when I looked at some of them, I was again reminded that all of this (Earth and Space and all it's wonder) did NOT happen by accident...there is just no way.
DS 4 was glad to welcome them home. He is definitely my social child. He loves having brothers to talk with...even though he drives them crazy sometimes.
So everyone has settled into their own place in our home tonight and it is a peaceful thing. Even though the energy is up...and the noise level is too...I am calm. I love knowing that all is well in my "nest".
Until next time!
I like it though. In fact, I think it's rather dull without them around. We got an update on their week away.
DS 1 is now in his room recording music that he has "in his head". He really enjoyed the music at the youth week and is excited about writing his own music to share with youth groups.
DS 2 just finished watching the video of the World Cup Final Game. He came home and immediately asked, "Is there a way that I can earn $40/month?" I wondered why...and he quickly pulled a picture out of his suitcase of a young 6yo boy from a third world country. He wants to sponsor him until he is 18. Then, he wants to pay the $350/month to send him to college....He assured me that by this time, he would be out and making money on his own.
DS 3 immediately began looking up some of the great pictures they were shown this week of outer space. The speaker showed them some amazing pictures and connected it to the wonder of God. Actually, when I looked at some of them, I was again reminded that all of this (Earth and Space and all it's wonder) did NOT happen by accident...there is just no way.
DS 4 was glad to welcome them home. He is definitely my social child. He loves having brothers to talk with...even though he drives them crazy sometimes.
So everyone has settled into their own place in our home tonight and it is a peaceful thing. Even though the energy is up...and the noise level is too...I am calm. I love knowing that all is well in my "nest".
Until next time!
Answers to the Name that Tune Thursday Thirteen
I had fun doing this post...I think I may try it again in the future. The only one that no one guessed throughout the day was Buttercup...other than that, I think the entire list was guessed via several people. Thanks for playing!! :-) Susan
1. SWEET CAROLINE (NEIL DIAMOND) "Where it began, I can't begin to know when. But then I know it's growing strong. Was in the spring, then spring became the summer...."
2. SOME ENCHANTED EVENING (SOUTH PACIFIC) "...And somehow you know, you know even then, that somewhere you'll see him again and again."
3. SUMMERTIME (PORGY AND BESS...OR JANIS JOPLIN) "One of these mornin's, you's gonna rise up singing' then you'll spread yo' wings an' you'll take to the sky..."
4. OLD MAN RIVER (ROGERS AND HAMMERSTEIN) "He must know somepin', but he don't say nothin'...He just keeps rollin', he keeps on rollin' along...He don't plant taters, and he don't plant cotton...And them what plants 'em is soon forgotten"
5. AMERICAN PIE (DON MCLEAN) "A long long time ago...I can still remember...How that music used to make me smile..And I knew if I had my chance
That I could make those people dance..And maybe they'd be happy for a while"
6. COUNTRY BOY (JOHN DENVER) "Now the simple kind of life never did me no harm, raisin me a family and workin' on the farm..."
7. THAT'S AMORE (DEAN MARTIN) "When the moon hits your eye like a big pizza pie...."
8. SEASONS OF LOVE (RENT) "How do you measure, measure a year? In daylights, in sunsets in midnights in cups of coffee..."
9. OH WHAT A BEAUTIFUL MORNIN' (OKLAHOMA) "All the cattle are standin' like statues. All the cattle are standin' like statues. They don't turn their head as they see my ride by..."
10.LIGHTS (JOURNEY) "Oh there's been mornings out on the road without you, without your charms...oh my my..."
11. FRIENDS IN LOW PLACES (GARTH BROOKS) "I guess I was wrong. I just don't belong. But then, I've been there before..."
12. BUILD ME UP, BUTTERCUP (THE FOUNDATIONS) "I'll be over at ten", you told me time and again. But you're late, I wait around and then I went to the door, I can't take any more. It's not you, you let me down again."
13.EDELWIESS (SOUND OF MUSIC) "Small and white, clean and bright, you look happy to meet me."
1. SWEET CAROLINE (NEIL DIAMOND) "Where it began, I can't begin to know when. But then I know it's growing strong. Was in the spring, then spring became the summer...."
2. SOME ENCHANTED EVENING (SOUTH PACIFIC) "...And somehow you know, you know even then, that somewhere you'll see him again and again."
3. SUMMERTIME (PORGY AND BESS...OR JANIS JOPLIN) "One of these mornin's, you's gonna rise up singing' then you'll spread yo' wings an' you'll take to the sky..."
4. OLD MAN RIVER (ROGERS AND HAMMERSTEIN) "He must know somepin', but he don't say nothin'...He just keeps rollin', he keeps on rollin' along...He don't plant taters, and he don't plant cotton...And them what plants 'em is soon forgotten"
5. AMERICAN PIE (DON MCLEAN) "A long long time ago...I can still remember...How that music used to make me smile..And I knew if I had my chance
That I could make those people dance..And maybe they'd be happy for a while"
6. COUNTRY BOY (JOHN DENVER) "Now the simple kind of life never did me no harm, raisin me a family and workin' on the farm..."
7. THAT'S AMORE (DEAN MARTIN) "When the moon hits your eye like a big pizza pie...."
8. SEASONS OF LOVE (RENT) "How do you measure, measure a year? In daylights, in sunsets in midnights in cups of coffee..."
9. OH WHAT A BEAUTIFUL MORNIN' (OKLAHOMA) "All the cattle are standin' like statues. All the cattle are standin' like statues. They don't turn their head as they see my ride by..."
10.LIGHTS (JOURNEY) "Oh there's been mornings out on the road without you, without your charms...oh my my..."
11. FRIENDS IN LOW PLACES (GARTH BROOKS) "I guess I was wrong. I just don't belong. But then, I've been there before..."
12. BUILD ME UP, BUTTERCUP (THE FOUNDATIONS) "I'll be over at ten", you told me time and again. But you're late, I wait around and then I went to the door, I can't take any more. It's not you, you let me down again."
13.EDELWIESS (SOUND OF MUSIC) "Small and white, clean and bright, you look happy to meet me."
Thursday, July 13, 2006
Thursday Thirteen # 24
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I went to Susie's Blog yesterday and found a great meme on there using her iPod. Since I don't have an iPod, but I loved the idea about the meme, I decided to steal (ahem) BORROW the idea and modify it here. Can you name these tunes? 1. "Where it began, I can't begin to know when. But then I know it's growing strong. Was in the spring, then spring became the summer...." 2. "...And somehow you know, you know even then, that somewhere you'll see him again and again." 3. "One of these mornin's, you's gonna rise up singing' then you'll spread yo' wings an' you'll take to the sky..." 4. "He must know somepin', but he don't say nothin'...He just keeps rollin', he keeps on rollin' along...He don't plant taters, and he don't plant cotton...And them what plants 'em is soon forgotten" 5. "A long long time ago...I can still remember...How that music used to make me smile..And I knew if I had my chance That I could make those people dance..And maybe they'd be happy for a while" 6. "Now the simple kind of life never did me no harm, raisin me a family and workin' on the farm..." 7. "When the moon hits your eye like a big pizza pie...." 8. "How do you measure, measure a year? In daylights, in sunsets in midnights in cups of coffee..." 9. "All the cattle are standin' like statues. All the cattle are standin' like statues. They don't turn their head as they see my ride by..." 10. "Oh there's been mornings out on the road without you, without your charms...oh my my..." 11. "I guess I was wrong. I just don't belong. But then, I've been there before..." 12. ""I'll be over at ten", you told me time and again. But you're late, I wait around and then I went to the door, I can't take any more. It's not you, you let me down again." 13. "Small and white, clean and bright, you look happy to meet me." HINTS: Here are two of the places I visited: Jelly Rolls and Bergamo's. |
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Wednesday, July 12, 2006
A Not So Wordless Wednesday....
OK, I was planning to share a little of this on my blog closer to my next birthday in August. But tonight HAS to be the night...
Some of you who know me in real life---and especially those of you who know my Father-in-law know about my "WONDERFUL" coupon! Others don't.
A little background:
About 6 years ago, I had a shift in job responsibilities at school that included test coordination and more work with student data. My FIL retired from our school district as the head of Research and Assessment. In addition to this job, he worked at the collegiate level teaching Research and Statistics.
This new job description was NO WHERE near my area of expertise! In fact, I pretty much used to run from numbers.
On my birthday that year, my sweet Mother-in-law gave me a card that included the coupon (shown above). The only thing that I didn't know until later was that my FIL did not know it until after it was sent.
Notice that the coupon has no expiration date. It also says "infinite". I may not be a numbers girl, but I KNOW the meaning of those two things.
Here we are six years later and I HAVE, in fact, used my coupon for many, many "consultations" in both work and home. Everytime my FIL asks for the "coupon back"...I tell him, "OK when Mom says." (She hasn't "said" yet--thank goodness.)
This coupon has "covered" many things over the years from babysitting, venting, handywork, data consulting, transportation for kids, among other things.
Tonight, we took the coupon to a whole new level. DS 4 found a tree frog the other day and decided that he needed to make it a "habitat". DH said he was totally serious about this frog. He took it over to Grandma and Grandpa's since he stayed there while DH and I were out of town this week.
Tonight I picked DS and the frog up to come home. Immediately upon entering our house, DS took the frog into the bathroom to replace the water. He lifted the basket off the "habitat" and the frog made a leap up the bathroom mirror. I heard DS scream and holler for help.
I need to interject here...I HATE FROGS!!! I am deathly afraid of them and will go to great lengths to go no where near one...especially this kind with the suction cup toes. As you can imagine, I was NO HELP at all although I did bring DS a broom and a big bowl to try and trap his little "friend". This effort, though, was to no avail.
Yes, I am a wimp. I know it. All the older boys are gone for the week. DH is down at church. I am thinking that sitting sentry in our bathroom tonight until his Dad gets home to catch it is probably not what DS 4 wants to do.
SO....I called in that coupon ONE MORE TIME!!! I called my FIL and admitted that I am, in fact, a wimp and told him the frog was loose in the house. He came right over (about a ten minute trip) and contained it for us. He told me what a "good frog" it is and how it just sits right on his arm. (OK, that almost made ME turn green!)
I know that I should have been able to contain this little "critter". I have critter issues and this man, who gives without ceasing, didn't mind giving one more time. I know that coupon or not, he would have done it. I am thankful for that.
But, it IS nice to know that the coupon is tucked away for "safe keeping" just in case. If I haven't stated it clearly before, I'll say it now: Thanks, Mom, for the coupon!!! And thanks to both of you for being you!!
Tuesday, July 11, 2006
OK, I might be a redneck, too!!
Last week or so, my brother Greg wondered aloud on his blog if he was a redneck.
Here I am staying at an upscale resort on the Disney property wondering the same thing. This conference is being paid for by the state. Since I am speaking, I get to stay at the convention hotel which is one of the nicest on the property. I have my own room on the 7th floor. It has a wet bar, the snacks (that are WAY over-priced) and all. Last night when I was in the dressing area, I noticed a silver canister on the floor under the counter with a plastic bag in it...I thought, "Oh,how nice, they have left a wine bucket in here in case you decide to buy the bottle of wine in the wet bar (again, way over-priced)." Not that I was going to buy a bottle of wine, but a lot of honeymoons take place here too. I thought, "It really is pretty---silver (plated) and all." It was a fleeting thought that soon passed.
This morning, as I stood in the dressing area preparing for the day, I needed to throw some trash away and looked for the trash can---which I thought should surely be in that area. Then, it dawned on me, my beautiful wine bucket was just a TRASH CAN!!!
BUT, if I were a redneck....I am certain we could throw some ice in there and chill down some wine (or would it be beer??)!! ;-)
Here I am staying at an upscale resort on the Disney property wondering the same thing. This conference is being paid for by the state. Since I am speaking, I get to stay at the convention hotel which is one of the nicest on the property. I have my own room on the 7th floor. It has a wet bar, the snacks (that are WAY over-priced) and all. Last night when I was in the dressing area, I noticed a silver canister on the floor under the counter with a plastic bag in it...I thought, "Oh,how nice, they have left a wine bucket in here in case you decide to buy the bottle of wine in the wet bar (again, way over-priced)." Not that I was going to buy a bottle of wine, but a lot of honeymoons take place here too. I thought, "It really is pretty---silver (plated) and all." It was a fleeting thought that soon passed.
This morning, as I stood in the dressing area preparing for the day, I needed to throw some trash away and looked for the trash can---which I thought should surely be in that area. Then, it dawned on me, my beautiful wine bucket was just a TRASH CAN!!!
BUT, if I were a redneck....I am certain we could throw some ice in there and chill down some wine (or would it be beer??)!! ;-)
Monday, July 10, 2006
My Weekend Window
It was kind of a quiet weekend here. I worked all day on Friday. It was nice to just come home and relax on Friday evening.
Saturday, I went to the nail salon (my indulgence). After that I went to the Scrapbook store to find stickers for my snorkeling pictures (another indulgence). I also returned the tent that I purchased last week. I thought we would need more sleeping space at the river and so I bought it with that in mind. We did not use it. So, back it went.
Yesterday was church. We heard part two of the Jonah story. Last week, dh talked about facing your fears. This week, he talked about what you do when you're in a big "fish" and you get spit up onto dry land. The idea was that when you ask God to help you out of the mess you're in...you're often still "messy"---like you would be if a fish spit you out on the shore. But, we can get "cleaned up" as we move in the right direction. It was a good thought.
Then, just before the torrential rain fell...I got my car washed. Yep, you read that right. The guys at the car wash (who were bored because NO ONE gets their car washed when it's gray outside) told me that the rain doesn't fall at the car wash. Anyway, they cleaned it up and out (which is what I needed most.
I came home to watch World Cup Soccer with my family. Cleaned the house and prepared to leave for a three day workshop in Orlando.
Today, I am leaving for that trip. It is a Literacy Coaching workshop. I present tomorrow. I am very excited to be going. DSs 1, 2, and 3 are off to Daytona for a week-long youth camp at the beach. They will get to hear Chris Tomlin (dove award winner) among others. DS 4 is going to work with dh today...that should be interesting. He will spend the night at Grandma and Grandpa's tonight and tomorrow as DH flies out to Texas tomorrow to discuss working with a district out there.
That's pretty much the comings and goings for us. It's summertime and the livin' is....well...it's not bad but it's also not so easy this week (I'm not seeing naps in my future this week, Mary)! But, then it wouldn't be my life if it weren't just a little busy!!! ;-)
Have a great week!
Friday, July 07, 2006
Face Your Fears
DS 4 is a "fretter". He frets over things long before they happen. I don't know where he gets it...maybe his Mother...but he does it nonetheless. I have tried to help him see that what we worry about usually doesn't happen. We went scalloping this week. Some combination of my family usually goes to join my extended family at "The River" to go on this adventure in July each year.
Last year, DS 4 went, but he decided that he did not want to go "out"...so he stayed at the house and fished off the dock. He was not a confident swimmer then and has only begun to develop into a more able swimmer recently. Still, he has been fretting over scalloping for this year since early Summer. We have been talking about this trip for quite some time.
So, as the week rolled around, the fretting escalated. He told me on the way up there, "Mom, I don't know if I am going to scallop or not. I may just fish." Knowing that sometimes you have to push them past their fretting, I told him, "No, this year, you are going to go scalloping. We have "noodles" to float on and there will be a lot of us out there. You'll be fine." The first day out, he got right in the water fins, mask and all. Once he discovered the undersea world, he really didn't want to come back into the boat. He had a ball swimming around the boat hunting for scallops, sponges, crabs, and starfish.
After about four hours of searching for scallops...only to find about 20 (see Greg's Blog about this)...we returned to shore. On the way back in, DS 4 was sitting in my lap with the wind blowing in our faces.
He was quiet as if he was trying to soak it all in. Then, suddenly, he turned to me and said, "You know Mom, you were right, I should have scalloped this year. It's kind of like Dad said yesterday."
Not really understanding what he was talking about, I asked, "What did Dad say yesterday?"
He replied, "You know, he said, 'you've got to face your fears.' And I have plenty of fears to face."
I was suddenly reminded that DH preached on the story of Jonah and the Whale during church the day before. He talked about Jonah being afraid to go to Ninevah and running from God. His point...you have to face your fears. You cannot run from God or your circumstances.
I called DH at home that night to tell him that at least "one little person was listening to his sermon yesteday."
I sat reflecting on this 7 year-old boy who has grasped such wisdom...He's right, you know, we DO have to face our fears!
Last year, DS 4 went, but he decided that he did not want to go "out"...so he stayed at the house and fished off the dock. He was not a confident swimmer then and has only begun to develop into a more able swimmer recently. Still, he has been fretting over scalloping for this year since early Summer. We have been talking about this trip for quite some time.
So, as the week rolled around, the fretting escalated. He told me on the way up there, "Mom, I don't know if I am going to scallop or not. I may just fish." Knowing that sometimes you have to push them past their fretting, I told him, "No, this year, you are going to go scalloping. We have "noodles" to float on and there will be a lot of us out there. You'll be fine." The first day out, he got right in the water fins, mask and all. Once he discovered the undersea world, he really didn't want to come back into the boat. He had a ball swimming around the boat hunting for scallops, sponges, crabs, and starfish.
After about four hours of searching for scallops...only to find about 20 (see Greg's Blog about this)...we returned to shore. On the way back in, DS 4 was sitting in my lap with the wind blowing in our faces.
He was quiet as if he was trying to soak it all in. Then, suddenly, he turned to me and said, "You know Mom, you were right, I should have scalloped this year. It's kind of like Dad said yesterday."
Not really understanding what he was talking about, I asked, "What did Dad say yesterday?"
He replied, "You know, he said, 'you've got to face your fears.' And I have plenty of fears to face."
I was suddenly reminded that DH preached on the story of Jonah and the Whale during church the day before. He talked about Jonah being afraid to go to Ninevah and running from God. His point...you have to face your fears. You cannot run from God or your circumstances.
I called DH at home that night to tell him that at least "one little person was listening to his sermon yesteday."
I sat reflecting on this 7 year-old boy who has grasped such wisdom...He's right, you know, we DO have to face our fears!
Thursday, July 06, 2006
We're BACK from our long weekend...
Thursday Thirteen #23
Thirteen things SUSAN remembers about July 4ths and Summer Vacations in the 70’s and 80’s:
1. July 4, 1974/5—We went to Riverhills Park for the city’s July 4th festivities. This used to include a parade followed by a day of entertainment and food and ending with fireworks. Because I cannot handle loud noises (including popping balloons) I would go across the street to my friend Judy’s house every hour on the hour to avoid hearing the giant cannon that they would fire.
2. Summer, 1976—I remember traveling to Washington, D.C., Philadelphia, Virginia and West Virginia for the Bicentennial year. We visited many historical places and learned a ton about the birth of the United States.
3. July 4, 1977—My friend, Susan W., was at our house. I bought earplugs for the first time and went to the fireworks in Riverhills park. In years past I simply plugged my ears with my fingers until they were sore. The earplugs worked OK, but I still ended up holding them in with my fingers. We went swimming at Marie H’s. after the fireworks. I remember the water being hot (almost like a bathtub) because the outdoor temperature was SO HOT!
4. Summer of 1977—I am pretty sure this was also the summer we went to Atlanta to see Stone Mountain. We camped in a pop-up camper on top of a hill. There was a storm that seemed as if it would throw us right down either side of that hill. The thunder was the loudest I EVER heard as it echoed off of Stone Mountain.
5. Summer of 1978—My Mom took us to Ohio for a visit. I remember missing my friends at home so much! It was those awkward teen years when you really would rather be anywhere but with your family. I had a Burt Reynolds tee shirt that I wore much of that summer. We stayed at my Uncle Ron’s house…and I soon got over missing my friends and enjoyed visiting family.
6. Summer of 1980—I turned 16 in August and had a 16th birthday party. We held it at a friend’s condo pool and clubhouse. Several people from school came. There was a DJ spinning---YES---45 records! (For those of you who are too young to remember those, it was a type of record NOT the number of records).
7. July 4th, 1981—I worked at Busch Gardens as a ride operator. It was this day that we went to the beach and I fell asleep out there. I was burned to a crisp! It was one of the most painful sunburns I ever had. I was also taking a summer class, Problems in American Democracy (which was really a class on Communism), at my high school.
8. July 1981—By the end of the July 4th week, we realized the reason I had fallen so soundly asleep on the beach is because I had mono. I had to go to my Grandparent’s house to rest because my Mom said the phone was ringing and I wasn’t able to sleep and get the rest I needed. I learned to cross-stitch that summer at Grandma’s as I sat and watch Lady Diana marry Prince Charles.
9. Summer, 1985—I drove with two friends straight through from Florida to Pennsylvania for a Christian festival called Creation ’85. It was several days of teaching and bands playing. We camped out in a tent. It was a great event that I truly enjoyed attending…although I can’t believe we drove like that up barren I-95 with NO CELL PHONES or real contact with home. I am sure I gave my Mother a few gray hair’s that summer!!
10. Summer, 1986—I went on my first cruise with Dad and Carolyn. We went to celebrate my college graduation. It was Premiere Cruise Lines (the Big Red Boat)—which does not exist anymore. The cruise went to Nassau, Bahamas and also to some out islands. It was great fun.
11. July 4, 1987—I had just moved to Lexington, Ky. to be closer to my fiancé (now husband). We went to watch the fireworks in downtown Lexington. He was sweet enough to park far enough away so I could sit in the car and watch them from there. I remember it was VERY HOT…but the fireflies were out and it was perfect in so many ways.
12. July 1988—Dh and I were still living in Ky. We had a newborn baby (only eight weeks old) and we decided to go to Mammoth Cave. I have pictures of DH carrying DS 1 through that cave. DS 1 was great inside the cave…but when we brought him out…he wailed the rest of the afternoon! I am sure it had something to do with the heat outside (over 100 degrees) and the cave temperature (a constant 54 degrees) playing with his body temperature. We were young, what can I say?
13. July 4, 1989—We watched the July 4th fireworks in my hometown from the parking lot of Zayer’s. I could sit in the car and enjoy while the rest of the family could watch them like “normal” people do. I was 7 months pregnant with DS 2…and while I don’t remember the particular heat of that day…I am certain it was blazing hot in that car!!!
Saturday, July 01, 2006
After sifting through pictures...
DS 2 and I just went through 700 pictures on a CD that the mission organization sends home with each team member and I dug up a few more pictures to share with you. I only saved 200 on my computer and plan to have those printed for their albums. They are going to make a more comprehensive newsletter to share their experiences with many of you very soon. In the meantime....here are a few more glimpses into their week...
DS 2 tells me that he and DS 1 are on chairs stacked about 30 high (in the picture below). I'm glad I know about this AFTER the fact!!
Here is DS 2 with their bus driver. He says the same person drove them around all week long:
Here is DS 1 in a game of Frisbee Football. They painted the inside of this church and played with the youth and kids in there as well.
Here is DS 1 giving out trinkets and toys at a block party in San Pedro.
Son 2 is showing off his soccer tricks in this photo.
There are many many pictures that shows the exciting work they accomplished while in Belize. I am proud that they want to serve. I hope that this experience will help them see the opportunities around us each and every day to be the hands and feet of Jesus whether we're overseas or in our own backyards.
DS 2 tells me that he and DS 1 are on chairs stacked about 30 high (in the picture below). I'm glad I know about this AFTER the fact!!
Here is DS 2 with their bus driver. He says the same person drove them around all week long:
Here is DS 1 in a game of Frisbee Football. They painted the inside of this church and played with the youth and kids in there as well.
Here is DS 1 giving out trinkets and toys at a block party in San Pedro.
Son 2 is showing off his soccer tricks in this photo.
There are many many pictures that shows the exciting work they accomplished while in Belize. I am proud that they want to serve. I hope that this experience will help them see the opportunities around us each and every day to be the hands and feet of Jesus whether we're overseas or in our own backyards.
They're BACK!!
DSs 1 and 2 are back from their mission trip. They arrived home last night around midnight. Both said they had a great time. They have pictures, which I hope to be posting very soon. It was great to listen to them share about the people they met and the things they did while on this mission. They both loved the service as well as the sightseeing. I think they got a good balance of both.
I'll update soon.
I'll update soon.
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