I finished reading two more books this week. The first one is an educational book by Dr. Todd Whitaker called Dealing with Difficult Teachers. This book intrigued me because it's true that I work in a profession where it is very difficult to "get rid of" ineffective and difficult teachers. It's one of the saddest things about my job. Dr. Whitaker gives some insight that I think is helpful in everyday life. He notes that difficult teachers really are often very negative people. They are not just difficult at school, but most likely in their home/personal life as well. Therefore, they don't know that they are difficult. I think this is true about most "Negative Neds and Nellies" out there.
This book, and Dr. Whitaker's strategies, will help me when I deal with teachers in my own school. It also serves as a reminder that we have to be "about kids" in education...and sometimes this means that we have to be tough with those who forget this most important part of the job.
As I mentioned earlier about my Summer Reading, I am trying to balance Nonfiction/Informational with Fiction/Fun reading.

So the second book I picked up is Silent Partner: A Memoir of My Marriage by Dina Matos McGreevey. This is actually my favorite genre: biography. Dina is the ex-wife of former New Jersey Governor, Jim McGreevey. Her husband resigned from office in 2004 after admitting that he was gay and that he had an affair while in office (and married).
The story that unfolds in Dina's book is one of strength and character. She is a woman who had political convictions as well as a strong faith. She believed in "forever marriage" and the sacredness of it. Yet, she was blind-sided by this admission of her husband's.
While I don't espouse many of her political stances, I could certainly feel her pain and grief as the rug was literally pulled out from under her. I found myself connecting with her as a wife and a mother. And certainly I haven't "been there"---but I am certain that, in her situation, I may have had similar reactions. And I admire her strength as she continues to fight for what's right for her and her daughter, Jacqueline.
Now, I'm back to nonfiction. I've chosen another Todd Whitaker book What Great Teachers Do Differently. I figure I need to read about what sets the superstars apart from the rest to balance out my earlier reading. My next "fun" book will be Memoirs of a Geisha (unless I decide to go out and get Khaled Hosseini's new book A Thousand Splendid Suns (which is a good possibility after reading some of the reviews).
Happy Reading Everyone!
{Edited to Add: I am not sure what is going on with these pictures...can you only see half of them? The full pic is in my post and preview. Weird.}
7 comments:
Susan - it never ceases to amaze me how impossible it IS to get rid of BAD teachers. I can not for the life of me figure out HOW this was allowed to happen in this MOST important of careers! And it drives me CRAZY that the "worst" ones end up being given some sort of administrative jobs at the BOE just to get them OUT of the classroom! (at least that's what happens in MY county!) It's a horrible system.
Your summer reading list looks pretty "heavy" to me. Even Geisha is rather heavy as "light" reading goes! A lot of "thinkin'" goes on during the reading of that book! It's a VERY good book - but it does make ya think! You seem to like that though ... thinkin'... :)
The peace thing on my page really doesn't require any additional info... it's just a thing this gal started 3 years ago to promote world peace on June 6th every year. She just asks everyone to display the globes and write a little sumpin' sumpin' about peace... Doesn't really "do" much other than to make folks stop and think about it for a few minutes. ;)
I loved reading Geisha... I think you will too. It's not in my Top 10, but maybe my Top 20.
I wonder if this would help me relate to my son's teachers?
It must be at least once a month it feels like my beloved and I are talking a different language than what the teachers (and aides) are speaking. Especially when dealing with my DS2 who struggles with Aspergers.
Thank you for those book titles! :)
I just could not get into "Geisha"...however, I was the same way about other books that I would pick up again a year or two later and just not be able to put them down until it was finished. I just love memoirs/biographies!!! I am going to see if they have Silent Partner on Paperback swap...thanks!
The story of Dina and her marriage sounds very interesting...
and so do the books on teaching. I wonder if the second one- What Great teachers do differently- could be applied as a home educator? Although I don't teach in a classroom setting, I'm wondering if the book could be beneficial...I'll have to look into it!
I'm almost done with the first in the Mitford series that I heard so much about...can't put it down at the moment! :)
I too LOVE biographies and on my shelf is In An Instant by Bob/Lee Woodruff - I can't wait to read that book next.
I read Memoirs of a Geisha last year for book club and thought it was very interesting. It would not have been a book I would have picked out on my own, but enjoyed it very much.
I love to read your book reviews. I have to keep my book buying under control though. I have so many books to read that I've started keeping a list online of the books I want to read when I finish the ones I already have. I did order "Same Kind of Different as Me" though. That just looked like such a great book. Keep reviewing! I'm keeping my list. Thanks!!!
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